(Closed) I feel jumbled/anxious/happy/sad..my head is going to explode!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
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Helper bee

@raye9289:  

I really think you should talk to him about how you feel. Get it out in the open. Maybe ask where he is and where he sees you guys in the next few years. Just to see. It’s not selfish to ask questions about things like this because It’s your future too. You listen to him and are there for him. He needs to do the same for you. Relationships are a give and take. Let him know when your ideal timeline for engagement and marriage is and see if he’s on the same page. You can bring it up in a calm/lighthearted manner just to see where he is at since it’s a big topic. When you need to vent, vent to us and to your friends who don’t mind and understand. That’s what I try to do as not to stress SO out and push the engagement further out. You do have a right to ask and tell him your expectations. Hugs and good luck! It is very hard being in the waiting phase and feeling like you can’t just let all those feelings out to SO and feeling like you don’t have control over the situation.

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