Post # 1
Ok ladys so i have been feeling sick to my stomach .. really! what does this mean? i feel a cold in my stomach and keep thinking about how close the wedding is and now im freaking out with the question…. how ’bout if things dont work out (crying out loud! OMG! This is a horrible feeling 🙁 why im i feeling like this? I know i love him thats why i say YES when he proposed to me, im i feeling like this because the wedding is getting closer uuffff! now i worry about what im feeling and i definitely dont want to tell my FI because well how is he going to feel.
Im even having travel sleeping …. im sad im feeling like this
have any of you feel like this or something similar?
Post # 3
I went through it as well!
Deep breaths! You KNOW this is what you want, or you wouldnt have said YES, and had months of months and planning up to this date!
You will look back on how your feeling now and laugh after the wedding day! believe me!
Like I said, deep breaths, calm calm calm, everything is going to be great! you’re going to be the most beautiful woman to your man on your wedding day, you two are going to spend the rest of your lives together and cherish every moment!
Post # 4
You know, I went through this last month, in April, when I was overwhelmed with all the crap i had to do! 3 weeks to go and I’m nothing but excited now. It passes, I promise!
I told my FI about it (he thought i was acting weird) and all he said was, "oh baby that’s totally normal don’t worry about it. i’ll probably get a little jittery right before the wedding too" He said it just means that we can acknowledge how BIG of a deal it is to get married
Post # 5
Your words are a relief! … im taking deep breaths and it is actually quite helpful Thanks!!!! It is good to hear from other brides that have been through similar feelings, i was feeling scared but im hoping to feel better soon.
Thanks for your help!
Post # 6
Its perfectly normal! don’t think you’re the only one! Its a big event in a persons life, so having freakouts about it is fine. Just dont do anything drastic (like I did….) and try and shrug it off, think of all the good things in your life with him, and the wonderful things to come, all those cold feet thoughts should just slip away!
Post # 7
I am getting married 2 days after you and get major butterflies in my stomach whenever I think about it. I want to marry my man and I cannot wait; I am just nervous beyond belief! I can hardly eat sometimes cause I feel like I would get sick!
I think it is normal. I don’t feel weird that I am feeling this way because, like others have said, it is a big life change. I also think that there is so much we have to think about that it also makes us nervous.
Just think about how much you love your FI and all the wonderful things about him and how happy you feel. It will all be ok!!!!!!! HUGS!
Post # 8
Like everyone said, it’s normal and likely a combination of stress from an upcoming life change and the big event. Definitely focus on the joy of your union and that will come from being with your loved ones for a day of celebration.
A day, or even an afternoon of activities not related to the wedding is probably in order as well. Remember, you can’t neglect you the PERSON in favor of you the bride.
Take care of you!
Post # 9
Littlebear i feel you! it is exactly how i feel, today for instance i had something for breakfast and i felt sick to my stomach then when i got home from school at 2:00 pm i had a mango and thats about it ….. ufff! i feel so sick! Ouch! hate the feeling, it almost feels like i have a rock in my stomach, i cant wait for the date to come already!
thanks lorienne i will keep that in mind, you are very helpful.
Thank you all for the hugs!