(Closed) I feel kind of sick… a lil cold feet hhhmm? im scared!!! wedding next month!

posted 9 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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1266 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Its normal!

I went through it as well!

Deep breaths! You KNOW this is what you want, or you wouldnt have said YES, and had months of months and planning up to this date!

You will look back on how your feeling now and laugh after the wedding day! believe me!

Like I said, deep breaths, calm calm calm, everything is going to be great! you’re going to be the most beautiful woman to your man on your wedding day, you two are going to spend the rest of your lives together and cherish every moment!

hugs!

Post # 4
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14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

You know, I went through this last month, in April, when I was overwhelmed with all the crap i had to do! 3 weeks to go and I’m nothing but excited now. It passes, I promise!

I told my FI about it (he thought i was acting weird) and all he said was, "oh baby that’s totally normal don’t worry about it. i’ll probably get a little jittery right before the wedding too" He said it just means that we can acknowledge how BIG of a deal it is to get married

Post # 6
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1266 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Its perfectly normal! don’t think you’re the only one! Its a big event in a persons life, so having freakouts about it is fine. Just dont do anything drastic (like I did….) and try and shrug it off, think of all the good things in your life with him, and the wonderful things to come, all those cold feet thoughts should just slip away!

Hugs!

Post # 7
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699 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I am getting married 2 days after you and get major butterflies in my stomach whenever I think about it. I want to marry my man and I cannot wait; I am just nervous beyond belief! I can hardly eat sometimes cause I feel like I would get sick!

I think it is normal. I don’t feel weird that I am feeling this way because, like others have said, it is a big life change. I also think that there is so much we have to think about that it also makes us nervous.

Just think about how much you love your FI and all the wonderful things about him and how happy you feel. It will all be ok!!!!!!! HUGS!

Post # 8
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1149 posts
Bumble bee

Like everyone said, it’s normal and likely a combination of stress from an upcoming life change and the big event.  Definitely focus on the joy of your union and that will come from being with your loved ones for a day of celebration.

A day, or even an afternoon of activities not related to the wedding is probably in order as well.  Remember, you can’t neglect you the PERSON in favor of you the bride. 

Take care of you!

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