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posted 1 year ago in Parties
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    Bee Keeper
    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    It's so stupid.  I was starting to feel really included and accepted in my new store. But all the other girls are getting baby showers, bridal showers, bachelorette parties, going away parties...and no one has offered to do anything for me. I don't want to say anything, because they should want to do it and not feel like they have too.

    I guess it just makes me feel left out...like I'm not important. Goodness knows I don't NEED another shower, or really deserve one.

    It just makes me feel sad and left out, but I feel like a brat for feeling this way. Just a vent, I suppose.

     
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    Bumble bee
    KaitlinHudson    December 18, 2010   Patuxent River, MD

    Maybe you should throw in a subtle hint next time like, "I would love for someone to do this for me!"

     
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    Bee Keeper
    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    But then they'd feel like they HAD too (or I would feel like they felt that way). And my Wedding's so close anyway. lol. It's so tricky. = (

     
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    KaitlinHudson    December 18, 2010   Patuxent River, MD

    well, maybe they figured you didn't want one since you hadn't said anything to them.

     
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    babyboo      

    How long have you been working at the store? Compared to the other employees getting these parties? It kinda sucks because you are part of the team but probably not super close enough that they feel comfortable throwing you a celebration party. Kind of like you haven't "put in your time?"

    Im sorry you are feeling left out, though. I know the feeling!

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    I've been there 5 months...over the last 3 or 4 I was really starting to feel close with everyone, but yeah.

    I talked to one girl and she said we had to have one, and I said sure. She asked a few questions but this was about 6 weeks ago. But whatever. That's why I feel bad. If I haven't "put in my time" it's not like I deserve it (or need it, like I said.)

    I was just venting, I guess.

     
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    babyboo      

    @His Barista: Vent away girl!

     

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