(Closed) I feel like an awful bridesmaid.

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

You need to attend the rehearsal. But don’t feel bad about skipping the bachelorette.

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I think you can pick one event to attend between the two, you don’t have to attend both. 

Post # 6
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Worker bee

I think it is understandable that you can’t make it to the bachelorette. And if the bride is ok with you missing the rehearsal, then skip that, too.  Go to the shower and maybe have an extra little something (a gift of some sort with a note attached) for the bachelorette.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

They should be understanding if you skip…2 hours is a long drive.

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

@Jw1724:  She sounds like a dream bride! So chill. I mean, she’s okay with it, so why the stress?

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