- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
I’m very different when it come to my future family in-laws. They are news, politics talking people and I am definately not. I very quiet when I’m at their home and have come to turns that it OK. BUT sometimes I feel that they can be rude, well at least my FI mother and his soon to be sister in-law. I am very polite. My FI brother is getting married today and I’ve to the bridal shower and the rehersal dinner for the bride to be. At the shower my FI brother was saying how they couldn’t find a celtic theme toasting flute so when I got home I FB message the bride on some suggestions on some celtic flutes and I never heard back. This isn’t the first time I never heard back from her, one time when she was coming over for dinner I ask her what she liked, again nothing. She have invited me to numberous things like a yoga class and her bridal dress fitting but never told me when she will actually will go. I feel a little upset that I being treated like nothing even though we will be sister in-laws less than 6 months.
As for my future mother-inlaw, she has ask my FI, he was my boyfriend at the time if I was trying to get pregnant so we can buy a house and live together. WHY WOULD ANYONE SAY THAT!!! I was pissed when my FI told me that. And last night we were told that the bridal party will go in the limo after the ceremony to take photos but wasn’t going back to the ceremony site for their cars but to the reception. Leaving me alone in a place I have no idea where I should go. My FI brought it to his brother’s attention and he offered that I also go in the limo too, and that one of his friends can drive the car to the reception. I thought that was soo nice. 8] until their mother said she can’t go in the limo she is not in the bridal party. BUT GOING TO BE IN YOUR FAMILY and I don’t want to be left all alone
I don’t know maybe I’m taking in too personal but I wouldn’t treat them that way on my wedding day or any day. I would want them to be comfortable. I just don’t feel very welcomed right now. Even though they are normally nice to be but just say they rudest things sometimes