(Closed) I feel like I’m gonna cry

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Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I feel you. I’m really wanting a baby too these days.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Don’t worry, I get those feelings too. I’m not engaged yet (it will be soon as I know he has the ring), but I get jealous of pregnant women all the time. A coworker of mine, who is my age, had a baby in the fall and it makes me wish I was pregnant.

 

To top it all off, a month and a half ago, my best friend told me she’s pregnant. She’s engaged but won’t be married til next October.

 

My plan was ALWAYS to be married before having kids, yet I still get jealous all the time!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Oh I’m so sorry, didn’t know that! I completely know where you’re coming from – my cousin had a stillbirth last year (the baby was 8 months along), but then got pregnant 3 months later and had a healthy boy. She had a really rough time and couldn’t get back on her feet for a while. 

 

It will get better. *Hugs*

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

It’s tough. REALLy tough. I can’t imagine how I would feel if I had to go through that. My cousin told us that she wanted to talk about the stillbirth because it made her feel better and helped her cope, and eventually move on to being happy about her second pregnancy.

 

I hope talking about it helps you! I also hope that God blesses you with another pregnancy and a healthy baby. We’re here if you need to talk about it!

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Mrs.Vowrenewal: Why haven’t you told your FI? That seems like a strange omission given that it was his child as well, and your FI is supposed to be you strongest supporter. Is there a reason you didn’t feel like you could share this with him?

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

You know they say it just happens when you stop trying. Dont stress about it. It will happen.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Mrs.Vowrenewal: I’m sorry to hear about that. Do you think you might feel better if you told your FI about it so that he could be there to support you when you get sad about it? Just a suggestion. Are you guys trying to have a baby?

Post # 16
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Blushing bee

I think you need to tell him. If it’s affecting your mood this much he’s going to notice something’s wrong. You may not be trying to conceive but you can certainly let him know how much this has made you realize what you want. Communication is key in any relationship and internalizing these feelings will not make them go away.

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