(Closed) I feel like the world is trying to stop my wedding

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: June 2013

When it rains, it pours.  Keep your chin up and say your prayers, and it’ll all work out the way it’s supposed to.  Go over your budget and decide what’s ABSOLUTELY necessary.  We all want the most magical wedding ever, but the next day it’s over and you won’t have anything but a hangover and photos as proof.  See if you can save on food or flowers.  Sending hugs from OK.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

Hell yeah… I know this feeling…

See my post “Advice for Newly Engaged Bees”…

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@allyfally:  I posted last week that everything seemed to be going wrong. I really wanted to throw my hands up.

I hope your dog is ok. I know how stressful it can be when pets get sick. And I’m sorry to hear about your job.

 

When I find wedding stuff to be getting to me, I stop. Magically, it’s always there when I’m ready to return. lol But I go watch tv, read, call a friend, talk to FI, clean…and stay off WB! 🙂 Just anything to get my mind off stress that could get overwhelming at times.

 

We currently have issues with family, money, work, BM’s, ex wife, stuff with the house that we are trying to get repaired…all plus the wedding deciding, which everytime I turn around, I hit a “no”. Or I don’t get a response. Or I have to decide something without all the information I need. Or choosing which is next in order of importance. I get it!! Big hug!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

*hugs* you are being tested, this is an awful situation but here’s sending kind thoughts and hoping it gets better soon!

Post # 8
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2098 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@allyfally:  I am currently not working and trying to find a job. This is has added considerable stress. I really do understand that it’s hard. For me, it’s not the wedding planning stuff per se, but it becomes hard on top of everything else. It’s like I have to choose small crap when I’m trying to find a job. Or we have to decide where our RD is and the money to use toward that on top of the dumb drama FI’s ex wife throws our way.

Just know the rain has to stop one day. 🙂

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