I feel so bad, but…

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
30305 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Ilovewine: Aww, hugs hugs hugs! Sounds like you just need a break.  Maybe set aside a moment or a day or what have you to pamper yourself a bit?  Everyone is allowed a day here and there!

Post # 4
Member
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I SO felt like that the month before our wedding! I was just DONE!

Post # 5
Member
4827 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

Damn, all I wanted to do was talk about my wedding, and no one asked me about it! Thus, my 4829034 posts here on Weddingbee 🙂

Post # 6
Member
29 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Can you just give really perky sparse answers and change the subject? “Yep, it’s going really well thank you!! And how are things with you” “Got everything sorted, thanks so much for asking. And what did you do in the weekend?”

Post # 7
Member
1403 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@Ilovewine:  Why do you feel the need to exhaustively update them?

Whenever I’m getting inundated with people asking I just say “Good, not bad – things winding down.  Same old, same old.”  And then they leave me alone. 

Are people so interested that they’re basically forcing you to elaborate?  I find that 95% of people really don’t care that much but it’s just a polite conversation fille so they ask.   They probably aren’t really that interested in the details.

 

 

Post # 8
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2247 posts
Buzzing bee

@skippydarling:  “Are people so interested that they’re basically forcing you to elaborate?  I find that 95% of people really don’t care that much but it’s just a polite conversation fille so they ask.   They probably aren’t really that interested in the details.

I’m also having trouble believing that so many people are so interested in every little detail of your wedding planning you’re being forced to discuss it.

Just say “Everything’s going really well thank you. I cannot wait till the big day” or something similar and then continue on with asking the question you need to ask, or ask them something about themselves etc.

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