(Closed) I feel so gross..

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
709 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Honey I’m sorry 🙁 I feel this way sometimes when I see pictures of myself too. Just try to remember that you will have gorgeous photos from your wedding, your photographer is a professional and it’s their job to capture you at your most flattering. As for guest pictures, maybe you could have them only upload to one of those wedding pic sites so you have approval of what goes up.

 

 

Amd tell your step mom to shut her pie hole.

 

 

 

Post # 4
Member
122 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We are all our own harshest critics.

Obviously, your FI thinks you are the most beautiful woman in the world. I’m sure your friends and family also think you are beautiful just the way you are [awful stepmother person excluded].

Even if you aren’t the weight you would like to be, you’re getting married, you are going to look gorgeous, and you are going to be happy. Keep telling yourself that until you know it’s true.

Post # 5
Member
1362 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@irishphoenix:  I’m so sorry sweety 🙁 Ignore that stupid little voice in your head and ugh your stepmother sounds detestable! I’m sure your FI thinks yoj’re drop dead gorgeous! Also, at least for me, whenever I have had surgery done I lose weight. The pain meds just make me want to sleep and I drink mainly water or natural fruit juices, food grosses me out for some reason. Also your photographer is going to take only the best angle shots of you! If its the guest pics that bother you, why dont you have an unplugged ceremony?

Post # 7
Member
990 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@irishphoenix:  I understand you and then I grab a slurpie and well there is that slide. Instead of stressing about losing the weight focus on your strengths and what you do like about yourself. A stressed person can lose less so doing the above can help you lose more and besides 20lbs makes a difference but not one that a lot of people are going to call you fat for, your step mom is just evil. Chin up and smile because there is something about you that FI thinks is sexy and he wants to marry YOU

Post # 8
Member
3267 posts
Sugar bee

why not just disable the ability to be tagged in photos?

Then either you tag yourself or not all all.

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