(Closed) I feel so silly for feeling this way :(

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1104 posts
Bumble bee

I would ask him to not make any more declarations like that. My Darling Husband used to say things that got my hopes up and then nothing happened. Finally I told him I didn’t want him to talk about it unless it was him proposing. That worked better. Also, it sounds like you have decided together that a) he will pay for the ring himself and b) you won’t get engaged without a ring. Both of these are fine but it doesn’t have to be that way if it’s not working out for you. Lots of women help pay for their rings, and lots of couples get engaged without a ring. So there are other ways of doing things if it will make life easier. Your bf shouldn’t feel like his only options are toys for himself, or a ring for you. Good luck!

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