I feel so terrible

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
Member
198 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Don’t. You’re going to wear the ring for the rest of your life (hopefully), and it’s better to have something you like than you don’t like. I commend you for speaking to him about the issue instead of letting it boil up.

 

Don’t let it hinder you from enjoying the wedding planning or the bliss around being engaged. It happens. You aren’t the only one. I would be the same way and so would a lot of other Bees.

 

He may be hurt now, but I’m sure he will forgive and forget.

Post # 4
Member
774 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - Dalhousie Castle

Awww it’s going to be okay. From what you wrote it doesn’t sound like he took it too hard. 

Just relax, chill out and take a week off wedding planning. Just do something fun together and get back to it when you feel more calm. Everything to do with weddings is so stressful, but it’ll be great. And, when it’s all over you’ll be married to the man you love, and all your wedding worries will evaporate. 

Post # 6
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1216 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

amandeebee:  Maybe you should just elope before he changes his mind since you’ve identified yourself as a monster.

Post # 9
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905 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Well the OP is a serious negitive Nancy….

Post # 10
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1216 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

CanadianBride456: 

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She admitted she was being a monster and wedding planning was making her miserable! HER WORDS. I wouldn’t want to marry someone who insulted the gift I gave them and turned into a monster when planning what should be the best day of my life. Look at her two other threads, all she has done since she joined here is literally complain that her ring and propsal was not good enough. Sorry, I usually try to pay nice on here, but I call she is either trolling or just has some serious problems that the bee is really not going to help her with. 

Either way if I thought wedding planning was turning me into a monster and making me miserable I literally would take my own advice and elope before I ruined my relationship.

Post # 11
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1216 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

msformaldehyde:  Thank you! Seriously. She has three posts about how miserable this all is. Eloping isn’t bad advice, because if she is as misrable and monsterous as she says it’s going to hurt her relationship.

Post # 12
Member
517 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

nattiejeanne:  Seriously? Are you 12? I cant … I just cant.

Anyways…

amandeebee:  Sweetie, it is ok!!! Obviously your sweetheart WANTS to keep you happy so it was important for him to make sure you got what you wanted. Dont beat yourself up about it. Count your blessings and maybe think of something that you can do to surprise him. A weekend trip? Get him some item he has been wanting… that may allieviate some of your guilt and also let him know how much you appreciate and love him. 

It is REALLY ok though. And please know there are A LOT of bees on here that are willing to offer you a kind word. Not all are like nattiejean. That was just ridiculous.

Post # 13
Member
1216 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

CallMeMrsG:  No I was seriously trying to be helpful. If you feel like wedding planning and the whole process is making you a bad person you should really decide what is the most important. I wouldn’t want to drive the person I love away because I didn’t like my ring and was overwhelmed/whatever with wedding planning.

I’ve gotten mostly “tough love” on this site about stupid shit like what I’m going to wear and what kinds of chairs I want to use, but this girl literally said she is turning into a monster and I’m the bad guy because I think repairing her relationship is more important than what OP herself described as being materialistic.

Post # 14
Member
517 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

nattiejeanne:  I can understand where you are coming from. It was just when I first read that I was so caught off guard. I always like to give people the benefit of the doubt but I totally get where you are coming from now when I read the OP’s other posts. 

Post # 15
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905 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Ya’ll quit condoning the crazy!

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