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    erica4help    December 31, 2009   PR

    We've been married during 6 months.  Before we were married he used to be more outgoing and had a great sense of humor.  He liked to surprise me and look sexy. He hada good looking body (he would workout). Now he's now more uptight, into staying home, has lost his hair and his good looking body. Overalll, he trys to avoid resolving our problems. He's able to go to sleep without talking and resolving our differences.  That makes me feel really mad and frustrated. I believe in open and honest communication. To me that's a priority, even before sleeping. 

    I would appreciate any recommendations.

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    Maybe the two of you should consider couple's counseling so you can get past your communication problems?

     
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    littleG    September 23, 2011   Australia

    he feels comfortable and is enjoying married life i guess! my FI is exactly the same bout the going to bed before resolving disputes and that drives me insane ... however thats how he is and we always deal with it the next day when he's much calmer ... dont worry hun, just hava talk to him and see what he says :) xx

     
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    EsqBailey    August 20, 2012   Virginia

    The advice that you've already received is great.  In addition to that, why not try to make work out dates with him. I know that when I don't work out I get lethargic so perhaps that's what's going on.

     
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    FutureMrsMoore    May 6, 2012  

    1 year old thread ladies

     
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    AprilJo2011    April 9, 2011  

    I know this is an old thread. I am none the less astounded that the guy lost all his hair in the course of 6 months. Surprised

     
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    Cash000    December 2, 2011   Canada

    @AprilJo2011: LOL.

     
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    retreadbride    July 31, 2011   bristol PA

    @AprilJo2011: i wondered that myself-- may he stopped taking rogaine?

     
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    carrieknitscake    October 10, 2009   Chicago, IL

    I'm wondering what the update is on this thread!?!?!

     
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    MsBrewer    October 1, 2011   Milwaukee, WI

    Why can't we post on here even if it's a year old?

     
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    AprilJo2011    April 9, 2011  

    @retreadbride: Haha, maybe.  Or he stopped wearing a wig.

     
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    retreadbride    July 31, 2011   bristol PA

    @AprilJo2011: changing the thought- how many of you- shave your legs less now;)

     
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    AprilJo2011    April 9, 2011  

    @retreadbride:  Same frequency. But it was never THAT often because my skin is very sensitive and hurts if I shave too often.

    Overall, I'm still trying. I don't believe in letting yourself go just because you're married. After all, DH and I thought what we see is what we get. So it would be false advertising if we suddenly got all too comfortable, right?

     
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    plantains    July 17, 2011   Live in NY, wedding in CT

    @AprilJo2011:

    hahahaha...awesome.

     
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    Fairy_in_love    November 25, 2011  

    @AprilJo2011:  "I am none the less astounded that the guy lost all his hair in the course of 6 months. Surprised"

    omg I was thinking exactly the same... that´s not possible, is that? I think it was just a form of speaking.. because even if it were posible, it wouldn´t be his fault! lol

     
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    joy2011    October 22, 2011   NE Ohio

    @MsBrewer: You CAN, but why would you bother, because clearly the OP hasn't been back, and most likely never will!

     

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