- 8 years ago
- Wedding: June 2010
My husband and I have been married a little over a month and have been dealing with his obscene older sister’s immature behavior for too long! They’ve never had a great relationship and is a lot like his mother (manipulative, jealous, pessimistic). She lives about 4 hours away…now that we’ve moved 10 hours (thank God)! Anyway, she is (was) totally against marriage and was w/ her now husband for about 3 years, but randomly she decides to get married 2 weeks before us. She tried having a big wedding but no one showed up since they’re going to ours and they were just having a ceremony, no reception. So she rubs that she got married before us in our faces and gives us major crap for not driving down for a 15 minute ceremony.
We would’ve gone if 1.) we had the money (we were going up to our new apt. 6 hours away to move some stuff). 2.) I was lucky enough to see the broadway musical the night before and didn’t get back till 5am. 3.) She gave us more notice! 4.) If we weren’t planning our own wedding!
So, guess what! She didn’t go to our wedding to punish us. The thing is my then fiance didn’t want to invite her b/c she was all things I’ve described before, but I invited her anyway so that it didn’t cause waves and she’s family. She gave us some lame excuse too.
My husband is irked b/c she traveled the 4 hours twice in one week to go to a family reunion and to their cousin’s wedding today. We’ve had to deal with her sexual comments on facebook (i know, pathetic) and other insults about us! So I finally deleted her. Since that’s our only contact with her we don’t have to ever interact again.
Yes, I do like to vent on weddiingbee! It’s the only place where you can get honest answers and thoughts=) Thanks for reading, I didn’t mean to make it so long!