(Closed) I finally did the brave thing.

posted 7 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@SweetRose2011: Thats good- maybe her mother will be able to reach her?

and it happens because something in their life is missing- or something in them is missing and the absense of this, whatever it is- faith in yourself, that you deserve better, that your afraid of wanting more than the life you have, all of that manifests itself into something negative, if you allow all those fears and that absense to take over your life. I honestly think the absence of honesty, self love, and reality is whats making your cousin make these choices.

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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I know its really tough. I had someone really close to me (sorry, I like keeping things anonymous here) who got into drugs and all sorts of things a few years ago.  It was really hard when they distanced everyone close to them, and wouldn’t listen no matter how much anyone wanted to help.  They also thought that pot wasn’t messing with them, but it was really changing their entire personailty.  It took years, and hitting rock bottom, but they’ve finally gown up, stopped the drugs and whatnot, and is starting to mend fences again.  Its slow, but its nice.  It might take your cousin some time, but hopefully she’ll come around.  Try to be there for her, remind her that you care even when she doesn’t want it, and someday things will be better :).

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