- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
I just don’t where to put this but I am completely beside myself right now…
quite a few years ago I met this girl. We used to hang out all the time. She was always a negative kind of person and after a few years, quite a few, like 6 I just couldn’t handle it anymore… So I just kind of quit talking to her, because she is/was always negative about things.
Well, i saw on her FB that she got married, and I thought things were looking up and she has changed… So I started slowly messaging her, and then she asked if I was still friends with another person, I said yes, and she proceeded to tell me that this person was a loser, blah blah blah, and she isn’t there to pick my friend BUT….
Then I told her of another incident that happened to me, that is/was very serious, i am getting at the tail end of it. And she proceedes to say, yea I always knew that would happen to you, blah blah blah.
I was telling her of my health issues, but she proceedes to tell me why her health issues are much more important than mine (which I don’t think either one is more important, they are just different issues) blah blah blah
basically, she hasn’t changed. I am hurt, I guess I was expecting too much. Its like I am so happy for her marriage (they eloped, found out thru FB, didn’t bother me etc…) But I thought I would give our friendship a second chance. however I see now that its not possible and it sucks.
Its like she is putting me down for stuff I already feel down about, so its like right now I am just a person to throw rocks at. Its amazing, why are people like this?
Anyhow… I guess I just needed to vent….