- 3 years ago
- Wedding: December 2014
I found the PERFECT venue… but he is still witholding my ring! lol.
I know the ring has been purchased, but he is currently really upset with his job and really doesn’t want to propose because he doesn’t want to be “picking up garbage on the side of the road” when we are engaged. So it may be a few more months before we are officially engaged, and I am fine with that. I want him to be completely happy with his job, his life, and himself (and of course me ) when he proposes, so I am fine with waiting.
This being said… I am still ‘planning’ a wedding! He has told me before that the wedding will be our, but mainly MY, day, so he doesn’t mind what we do/how we do it/whatever. He said he doesn’t want any say, because that means that he’d have to help. Hahaha. So, I am definitely planning away. I’ve planned the bridal party (well, my side, at least), the colors, where to buy flowers/bouquets/boutineers from, the food, the entire guest list, even the SEATING CHART (pretty small wedding, mainly family so this was simple, and easy to chance if needed)… lots of stuff. The only thing I won’t do pre-engaged is try on dresses and actually TOUR venue sites.
Anywho, I had just found the PERFECT venue while researching online. Its actually a place I went to for dinner before a prom on year! It is SO nice and classy, but really laid back and easy going. It allows us to have an outdoor wedding and an indoor reception for comfort (since we will likely be married in the summer). I just KNOW that SO will love it… he just wants to be married outdoors and by water… and this is right on a lake. I am seriously GIDDY over finding this place.
I really hope he pops the question before its too late to book this place! I’m hoping that our (potential) date will be open for a while, since its a Sunday. Fingers crossed!