- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2014
So, I wrote about my desire to elbelow below. My reasons are complex and are heavily based around my family. In the end though, I just want to marry my best friend.
Last week FI and I were talking about the wedding planning and I decided give have another crack at trying to convince him to elope with me. He explained thathe didn’t have an 18th or 21st birthday party and feels like knots milestones in his life haven’t been done “properly”. He said he will regret It just being us, he wants his parents and siblings there to be proud of him and he wants to share the memories with those closets to us.
So I cave. I give up on eloping because the wedding isn’t important to me, marriage is. But there wedding is important to FI (marriage is too, of course). I won’t take something important away from him.
So… I guess I’d better keep planning!