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    MissMeg    March 19, 2011   South Carolina

    The boy proposed today!!! I knew he was looking at rings, but I had NO idea he had already gotten it and was even MORE surprised by how quickly he moved! We've only been dating 7.5 months. Here's the story....

    Since school is starting back (I'm a Special Ed teacher) he wanted to take me on a camping trip this weekend before things get too stressful at school. We camped last night -it poured down rain and was quite miserable. Then this morning set off to hang out in some cute mountain towns today. I was not suspecting a THING! We hung out all morning, then he wanted to drive on the Blue Ridge Parkway. We've been talking about doing this forever, so again, I suspected nothing. We stopped at one of the little parks, walked around for a little bit, then he said he wanted to check out some of the overlooks. So we stop at the next one up the road. All of a sudden he gets all crazy about wanting to take his backpack. This is when I start to think something might be up, but don't want to get my hopes up. The first overlook and the 2nd were a total bust. The trails were not maintained at ALL. Then we stopped at a 3rd and hiked up to where you can see out over the mountains. Well, you're supposed to be able to see out over the mountains anyway. We were IN a cloud, so all you could see was fog. 

    So we're sitting up on the rock waiting for the clouds to clear out and he starts rummaging through his bag. About a month ago he told me he was buying me a surprise but that I had to wait to get it. He says, "This is very special, so I need you to stand up to get it." Now I'm thinking "This is it!!" Then he pulls out a jewelry box... but it's too big for a ring. So I'm like, "Ok, it's not the ring. But it's still something shiny! That's cool!" He goes on to tell me about how he got his mom's diamond from her engagement ring set into a necklace for me and how he wanted to give it to someone special. I start crying and hugging him at this point because I know how much that diamond means to him (his mom died when he was 4). He asked me to turn around so he could put it on me. Then, as I'm turning back around he starts talking about his dad gave his mom that diamond the day he asked her to marry him, and he wanted to give it to me on the day he asked me to marry him. As he's saying this he's getting on one knee and opening up a ring box. At this point, I have no idea what he said all I know is I said "OF COURSE!!!!" and hug him like a crazy person. 

    So I'm ENGAGED! I don't think it's really set in yet... But I am SO excited to be marrying him! Yay!! The ring is PERFECT! It's exactly what I wanted. Thank goodness he employed the help of my bestfriend! haha 

    I forgot to add the picture of the necklace. I love it just as much as the ring!

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    dance    July 23, 2011   Alberta, Canada

    Aww sweet story!  That is so exciting!  Congrats and beautiful ring!

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    I LOVE that ring!!! congratulations & welcome to the hive!!

     
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    solaneoh    May 2011  

    Congrats! So sweet.

     
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    abbyful    June 7, 2011   Kansas City

    Awww... CONGRATS! :)

     
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    Allyser    September 1, 2010  

    Congrats!! My FI and i dated only 7 months before we got engaged also- didn't use to think that saying was true but you do know when you know ;-)

     
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    kkkatieB12       Mobile, AL

    How sweet! Congrats!

     
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    eeniebeans    October 9, 2010   Baltimore

    That is a GREAT story!  Yay!

     
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    deathbydesign    February 18, 2012   Lives in Ontario, married in Quebec

    Congratulations! How sweet!

     
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    deathbydesign    February 18, 2012   Lives in Ontario, married in Quebec

    Congratulations! How sweet!

     
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    nycbrde2011    June 29, 2012  

    Congrats that is amazing!!!! So Sweet u must be over the moon happy!

     
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    MsInterpret    March 19, 2011   lesbian couple, married in Iowa, live in san antonio TX

    What a wonderful story!  Congratulations!!   Honestly, FI and I talked about marriage within month one but told ourselves we were nuts and tried to "shelve it".  But 7 years later we were still talking about it and here we are finally doing it!

     
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    diva81esq    November 11, 2011   DMV, PG Cnty~Ceremony in NC

    Awwww....CONGRATS, so happy for you...beautiful proposal, ring and necklace!!

     
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    mrsmdphd    April 17, 2009  

    I love the story, and both the ring AND the necklace!  Congratulations!!!

     
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    artichokey    June 16, 2012  

    Congratulations! They are both absolutely BEAUTIFUL!

     
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    Scribbles    June 1, 2012   Auckland, New Zealand

    Another graduate! Congratulations. The ring is awesome but how special is that necklace?? It could be an awesome heirloom to pass down through generations!

     
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    picturemeurs    February 2012  

    Such a beautiful story, Congrats and best of luck in your future marriage.

     
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    MissMeg    March 19, 2011   South Carolina

    Thanks everybody! I woke up this morning and thought, "Was that a dream?" and then I saw my ring and new it was for real! I'm so happy! 

     
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    Wow, you got a diamond ring AND a diamond necklace?!?!? That's amazing!! Well done on your FIANCE'S part, hoooooray for getting engaged!

     
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    Treasure43    September 18, 2010  

    What a sweet story! Congratulations!

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    Congrats!! Great for your FI for cutting that wait in half of what you were thinking!

    That is a great story. I love that he took the diamond his dad gave to his mom!

     
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    bryanneb61    May 5, 2012   Columbus, Ohio

    Congrats!  What a sweet story!  :)

     
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    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    LOVE that ring. And congrats, that's such an adorable story!

     
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    Vegan    July 6, 2013   maryland

    Very sweet and congrats! I love bezels enjoy!

     
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    menobride    June 5, 2011   NH

    Wonderful story, and wonderful bling. Congrats!

     
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    rachaelrobin    January 16, 2011   Philadelphia

    Aw, that is such a sweet story! Congrats!!

     
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    PinkBubbleGum    September 2011  

    That is so sweet! Congratulations!

     
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    fancypants    August 12, 2012   Vermont

    Wow!  That is so darn sweet, congrats :) 

     
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    littlemissmango    July 7, 2012   Oahu, HI

    OMG! That was SUCH a sweet, wonderful proposal story! And I totally remember you posting that exact ring on our little dream ring thread the other day!! Congrats! :)

     
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    cliffette    November 10, 2010  

    That's such a beautiful way to propose!

     
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    TheFutureMrsE    June 4, 2011   Berks County, PA

    Congrats !! We were dating 8 months when he proposed !!

    Good Luck!!!

     
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    BayStateBride    September 1, 2012   Cow Hampshire (wedding in MA)

    what a sweet story!  congratulations!!

     
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    DreamingBee    October 2012  

    Congratulations!

    The jewelry is gorgeous and that is such a sweet story :-)

     
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    MissMeg    March 19, 2011   South Carolina

    Thanks again everybody! I still can't get over how QUICKLY he moved! And by the way, he's totally going to have this whole wedding planned before I do.... He cannot stop talking about ideas. It's too cute.

     
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    trishisadish    December 20, 2012   Florida

    That is soooo sweet! Congrats!!!

     

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