Post # 1
DH decided out of the blue that YEP hes ready to start TTC!!!! I am beyond excited!!! I think seeing all the cute little kiddos on vacation made him have baby fever!!!
He originally wanted to wait like a year or so… He said he doesnt want to schedule BDing.. and wants to just let it happen when it happens.. which I totally understand.
With all of this I am freaking the eff out!! Not bc we are actually NTNP.. but b/c WHAT IF THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME and we cant get pregnant….Im so scared that it just wont happen for us…
EEEKKK!!! im soooo excited!!!
Post # 3
I totally get it!! I’m getting married in October and we are going to start right after the wedding. just this past Wednesday I had my IUD removed and have the same fear…I’ve never had a pregnancy scare so have no idea how hard it will be….congratulations, I hope it happens quickly for you. Remember to take a prenatal vitamin so you get the folic acid. They recommend taking it quite a bit before. My doctor already started me on it.
Post # 4
I hear ya! My FI and I are getting married this coming Sunday, so we are just now officially starting to ttc. (I ovulate around the wedding day) I’m so insanely excited, but then it will hit me…what if there is something wrong and we can’t?? It’s so hard to just relax and take it as it comes!
Post # 5
@graygodess20: Congrats. So exciting! I’m the same boat as your DH, I’m just NtNp, that’s how I like it, too much stress for me otherwise!
Good luck, hope you get that BFP soon 🙂
Post # 6
@graygodess20: Congrats! You have nothing to worry about unless you are aware of any fertility issues, but since you didn’t mention any, I will assume there are none. Good luck and happy BDing. Hope you get your BFP fast 😉
Post # 7
I feel the same way. We were going to wait about a year but decided to start in about 3 months. I am going to start with prenatal vitamins and getting in shape (need to lose about 5-10 pounds).
I think we all have the same fear that it can take a long time or not at all. At this time I have not told anyone that I stopped BC and we are getting ready to try soon. Good luck.
Post # 8
@graygodess20: Yay! Don’t worry about anything, see how it goes, that’s all any of us can do.
Post # 9
I so get what you are feeling right now! My DH and I always said we’d wait a couple years till we would start to TTC, but only a year into our marriage he comes up to me and wants to start trying soon. I was more than ready but oh so scared! What if we coulnd’t get pregnant? How long could this take?
We ended up just relaxing and having fun with everything and it thankfully, only took me my second cycle in to get my BFP!
I wish you the best of luck! Hope a happy healthy baby is in your near future!
Post # 10
Thank you so much ladies!! I just cant believe all the feelings that are rushing through me right now!
I want it just let it happen and have fun with it but im scared that im going to be sooo obsessed that its all im gonna be thinking about, talking about.. dreaming about.. haha..
Im glad im not the only one who is scared that it will take forever, or not happen at all!!