(Closed) I Had a Dream Where I Cheated On My FI

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2104 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I have these dreams all the time. I know it’s a little disturbing when I first wake up, but then you just have to go, “eh…brains are weird.” No reason to tell your SO about them.

Post # 4
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2104 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

If you need to tell him something, tell him it was a dream about another guy, and since you’d never do that it is troubling you. No need to mention Bill’s name.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@LeavinOnAJetPlane:  I used to have dreams like that when I was engaged too.  I think they are pretty normal.  Don’t even worry about them.  The more “attention” you give them, the more they will come around.  

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@LeavinOnAJetPlane:  When me and FI were first dating I had hung out with his roommate and best friend Joe all day while FI was at work. That night FI (then only BF)said I was moaning in my sleep and asked about my dream. I spoke before I thought and was honest- “I had a naughty dream about me and Joe”

He was a little freaked out and was jealous for a few weeks, but he got over it and now teases me whenever Joe comes up in conversation

 

It’s no big deal. Our minds play funny tricks on us sometimes. I’ve dreamed that I was batgirl and saved the city in the nude before.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

ummmm… YES!  I have dreams about old flames, good friends, making an Adrien Brody- Ron Pearlman sandwich with me as the filling and this one about me rolling a giant doughnut through my office naked…but whatever!

Dreams are not something you control, in fact it’s an upside down, thinly veiled, super confusing garbage dump for your conscious mind to lighten the load of things that are taking up space.

I never, judge, edit or chastise myself for what happens in my dreams, I’m not really driving, after all…and Mr. 99 is always curious what was going on in my mind after a particularly restless night….

 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

I had a dream like that about a doctor I was working for a couple years ago. Dr was same age as me and attractive but I was with FI and he was married. Plus I keep my work life seperate from my private life. But anyway it was pretty awkward for me at work because everytime the Dr would ask me for something I’d think about the dream I had where we got busy on his office desk. I never said anything to FI because it didn’t mean anything plus he might have made me quit my job lol. I just carried on each day like it was nothing and eventually I forgot all about the dream. I now have a different job and don’t see this Dr at all, even though we still work for the same hospital.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I had a dream where I left my FI, married Jack Torrance from The Shining, then had an affair with Hawkeye from the Avengers.  A detail that my dream brain then forgot about when Jack Torrance started chasing me with an axe…

It was a dream.  Dreams are crazy.  Don’t worry about it too much.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Nona99:  LOL I’ll take a Joseph Gordon-Levitt/Ryan Gosling sandwich!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Haha, it doesn’t mean anything… don’t bother telling him if he’ll act like its something serious.

I have sex dreams about people I know ALL THE TIME. Many times its just a faceless man (or even weirder faceless women). I definitely have no interest in being with a woman, but I have sex dreams with other women. So, that tells me that my sex dreams with other men mean, well, pretty much nothing. Because these men I don’t have feelings for either. OR, maybe I did have feelings for them at some point, but I don’t anymore.

No big deal…

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