Post # 1
Ok, so I have just been really laying low and not thinking much about getting engaged. I am trying to just let it happen. As some of you know my boyfriend is a professional athlete. We knew for a long time that we would most likely get engaged after this BIG competittion. There was no way we could do it any earlier, he trains, eats and sleeps right now! I am fully supportive of it and I am even taking time off work to travel to Malta to be there to support him and cheer him on. We get back October 4th so it will probly happen between then and December. So anyways I am just trying to focus on other things and I haven’t been on here that much. I was taking a break.
Out of the blue last night I had the most REAL dream ever! My Boyfriend or Best Friend was expecting me home and I was running late for some reason. I walk in the door and its him, my parents and my good friend with her husband. The place was decorated and I was like what’s going on? My Boyfriend or Best Friend got down on one knee and held out a box. This time I saw a ring! It was one of the rings I had wanted. I started crying and saying wow this is finally happening. He put it on my finger along with the wedding band. LOL People were hugging me and then all of a sudden I realized my ring didn’t have a center stone, it was missing. My Boyfriend or Best Friend explained to me that since he got it on ebay we had to wait for the center stone but I could still wear it anyways haha. So I am wearing the band with a hole in it! It was so real I remember hugging my friend and being happy that I could feel a peice of jewlery finally on my left finger!!!!!!
And then it ended. I woke up and looked at my Boyfriend or Best Friend sleeping next to me, I looked at my bare finger and sighed. LOL
So even though I am calm and not trying to think about getting engaged, why am I having dreams????
Anyone else have dreams lately???
Post # 3
That’s a really cute dream! I used to have proposal dreams all the time. At one point, I saw a really cool ring in the window of an antique store. I really loved it but didn’t remember much about it other than that it was diamond and emerald and fantastic. Three weeks later the exact ring was in one of my dreams. It was crazy!
Post # 4
I had a dream a few weeks ago, and it was really sweet though SO gave me something quite hideous! We laughed about it when I recalled.
However, I do sometimes get premonitions. It sounds crazy, but seems to run in the family and we’ve traced it back to the paternal side a few generations. Anyhow, I had something occur last night while in bed with SO. I physically felt the ring on my finger, and in my mind saw it was a 3 stone round cut, probably 1-2 carat center and 1/2 carat side stones. It is absolutely NOT what I told him I wanted, but I was fine with it because it was gorgeous. It took some gumption, but I told SO about it this morning. He tried to pry it out of me, but I refused to do so… his concern was that if I descrribed it, it would become a self-fulfilling prophecy because he might pick that. 🙂 We will see!
Post # 5
I have nightmares but they aren’t wedding related they are always before a big event I had them right before we moved in together and this morning I had one. We are getting a new apt and both of our names will be on the lease and it is freaking me out my nightmares are about loss of control because I feel like I have no control over our proposal lol like I am waiting for him to pop the question and its all his decision on when our engagement begins and what my ring looks like. Lol I wouldn’t have it any other way I WISH I had proposal dreams
Post # 6
I don’t get dreams often, and when I do they’re almost never about real people or events (apparently I like making up random people? Must be a side effect of writing too much, haha). BUT I did have a wedding-related dream a few weeks ago. I was being fitted for a dress that was supposed to be my wedding dress. It looked ridiculous. It was like one of those knitted grandma blankets with the little puffy balls all over it, and it had a high lacy collar and long poof-covered sleeves. I was telling the seamstress to make all these changes to it–No No, the fabric isn’t right, and I want you to chop off the sleeves here and have them fitted, and the waist and the butt are too saggy, get rid of this and that…and so on.
A few days after I had that dream, I discovered a dress that I absolutely adored online…and realized that the changes I had made to the dress in the dream correlated to the style of the dress I had picked out, a style which I had never even considered before. LOL.
I could’ve sworn I had an egagement dream the other night, but now I can’t remember it! Agh! The e-ring eludes me still, even in my dreams!
Post # 7
I’ve had 2 proposal dreams. One wasn’t that clear, but the other was.
He took me into some room, with glass walls and my friends were watching. (I didn’t seem them in my dream, but me dreaming it I could.lol) In the room, there was some type of house thing he made and in all the little rooms, there were special things about me. It was so pretty. Like icy blue or something. Then he pulled out a ring and asked me. I couldn’t see the ring.
Last night though I had a dream we were in a 3 story townhouse and I had set up a nursery. We don’t live together and I am wanting a baby soon. LOL So THAT’S where that one came from.
Post # 8
I voted yes because although I’m now engaged, I was having dreams about it before we got engaged. But in my dreams I kept getting engaged to the two other guys I’d dated before I met my now Fiance!
Post # 9
Crazy! I just had a dream about getting engaged last weekend. I haven’t really been thinking about it too much lately (but obviosuly my subconscious hasn’t forgetten so quickly!) so it actually kinda surprised me! I don’t exactly remember the details of the proposal, but I remember the aftermath – we were fake fighting about who to tell first, and the ring was really unusual: it had pink stones. Which is really wierd because I HATE pink 🙂
Post # 10
omg I have now had two engagement dream “nightmares” haha. Both include HORRIBLE rings. Not rings that are not my style, but actually horrible rings. Last night I dreamed that my guy proposed with a very sweet proposal and a very nearly knocked him over with a huge hug and “yes” **cue awwwwwws* then he shows me the “ring.” He tells me that he knows I prefer certain styles but he doesn’t like those and this is really more unique. It is an uncut/unpolished HUGE blue diamond. It looks like a big blueish grey rock and it sticks out all jagged down my finger, and the band is some other kind of stone that doesnt even really fit. So in the dream I couldn’t hide my “wtf” face and he got upset bc I didn’t like the ring…. it was really a mess.
So ridiculous because my bff has seen the ring he got me and told me I’ll love it and she would KNOW so I have nothing to worry about… but for some reason my dreams manifest in a bad-ring way!
Post # 11
I haven’t had a proposal dream for ages. Nowadays, I have dreams about him sending me to catch HUGE poisonous spiders!! (and then he wakes me up to say there’s a spider in the bath and he needs to be rescued from it!)
When I did have proposal dreams, the main one was hom popping the question on the steps of Coventry Cathedral, just after my graduation ceremony in there. I was so upset that he chose THERE to propose that I just walked off and left him.
IRL, Coventry Cathedral is ok, but I don’t practise Christianity, so him choosing there to propose made me feel he didn’t know me at all. In the end, I chose to take my Degree and run, rather than go to the ceremony. Maybe subconsciously I was thinking he’d be down on one knee right outside!
Post # 12
I have only had one proposal dream and the only part I remember is that the top on the ring looked like a ninja star and was steel. Sometimes I daydream about different scenarios though.
I did have a baby dream the two nights ago and it was so realistic that when I woke up I was a little disappointed 🙁