Post # 1
Had a fight with my FI and even though I still feel upset (and a bit angry), I hate it when he’s angry at me! I forgive and ‘forget’ very easily because I generally feel life is too short to hold grudges, but he’s an expert at the silent treatment…o, I hate that. Just wanted to vent a bit. Feeling sad today 🙁
Post # 3
Sorry to hear you two had an argument. I hate when J and I do as well. I always feel extra horrible.
I hope you two make up sooner than later. Good luck.
Post # 4
it happens… and it’s good that it does. you need to be able to yell and gith every once in a while. and it’s also nice to know that you both are confident in each other’s love and that a simple fight will not tear you apart. being able to fight and not even think about seperating is a good thing.
FI and i are both very co-dependent and clingy. our fights usually turn into us both crying and apologizing to each other and the apologizing and self guilt trips lasts about twice as long as the initial argument.
Post # 5
Thank you girls, feeling better already, yes, fighting is ‘good’ , but I am really bad at it,lol. I can’t do the silent thing, and I always just end up crying and telling him how much I love him even if he makes me mad. He always stays mad longer, it sux. probably the testosterone, lol:(
Post # 6
Hi Willow! I’m sorry you guys had a fight…I know what you mean, sometimes it can be so unsettling.
Glad you’re feeling better!