(Closed) I hate everything about it…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Deep breaths. It’s going to be the most amazing day of your life, and not because you’ve planned this wedding or stressed out for months, but because you are marrying a man that you love and adore.  That’s all its really about. Focus on that and let the other stuff go. it will get done.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Are you guys paying for the wedding? I guess I should ask, are his parents paying? I wouldn’t be letting her dictate your wedding unless she is paying for it

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@blondilocks: I feel you sister! I wanted to get eloped…and even though we are having what many would consider a low budget wedding, I hate watching all my cash go out the window because of a wedding that everybody else wants. Gag me. Just ready to be married and on my honeymoon. OVER IT.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Wine and chocolate!!  Lots of it, STAT:)  Sorry you are going through this.  Hang in there!!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@blondilocks: RIGHT!!!!!! We are in the same boat and I swear I say that ten times a day. Buhhhh.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Im sorry you hate your wedding but In the end your marrying Fi and thats what counts anyways right!

Post # 13
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2007

@blondilocks: Could these emotions have anything to do with you being less then 4 weeks away? I mean it being so close now? I only ask because I started feeling the same way you did……the closer the day got.

Just try and remember the reason for the day. lol You guys are starting your lives together that day….Try if you can to “keep your eyes on the prize…” Haha Okay that sounded really stupid.  I just mean that everything else is just the details, what really matters is waiting for you at the end of whichever isle you choose. lol

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

You could always renew your vows in a couple of years and have your dream wedding? If i was having a wedding i hated i would be secretly planning a vow renewal too… lol

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