(Closed) i hate feeling this way…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i dont think youre over reacting at all. is anything set in stone? is there a way to bac out of this whole mess? i wouldnt want to share my wedding with my friend in that way…. 🙁 why does she have to get married that week? why couldnt she pick another week? im sorry youre going through all this 🙁

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

geez a double wedding.  This could be a movie.  Well, you agreed to it so I think you should just have a positive attitude and go along with it.  Why does she want a double wedding?  How strange.  But since you already said yes there is no way for her to know that you feel different.  She even went along with having it at your resort bc you asked her to.

I just dont understand WHY she wants to do this.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013
Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

well i hope you have a wonderful wedding anyway.  Just try to look on the bright side since there is nothing you can do.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Since your wedding is first then if they are the same exact thing everyone will enjoy yours more because it will be boring for the second one to be just like the first. For the people that don’t talk to her to hear her spout your ideas before you can will think they were your ideas that she copied, and it’s the truth so you shouldn’t care. If someone I knew was having my exact wedding a couple days after mine I wouldn’t get upset because they are the ones missing out on having their own day.

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2015

yikes, that is a sticky situation. and sux that you can’t really do anything anymore. try to think about the reasons you were excited in the first place…..however, i can totally understand. i would NEVER want my friend to have the same wedding 2 days after me. so weird that SHE wants to! and definitely rude that she even asked.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

oops, something happened to my post the other day…yes, weird that she asked! i would never think to ask my friend something like that.

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