I Hate How Jealous I Am of my Fiance's Female Friend – Help!

posted 1 year ago in Relationships
Post # 76
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

BabyInACorner :  except that his own fiance feels like the third wheel here and she shouldn’t feel like the third wheel in her own relationships. They are engaged to be married surely she shouldn’t feel second to another women. Her fiance I’m sure knows she is into art and the fact that he thought of bringing some other chic over his own fiance is a problem and rings alarm bells. And then je acts like his own fi is intruding in his date with tina like well you can join us if you want like excuse her for not wanting to be a second thought in her own relationship. The fact that he is magically hanging out consistently alone with her is odd as well

Post # 77
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4749 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2016 - Lola's Trailer Park

soexcited123 :  This thread is over a year old.

Post # 78
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318 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

Yeah, this would not work for me.  I’d feel the same way you do, and would not doubt those feelings.  It would irk me too much, and I would have broken up with him.  

Everyone has different thresholds for what makes them feel safe and what they need out of their partner.  That “woman’s intuition” was ringing pretty strong in me while reading your post. 

Good luck, keep your eyes wide open. 

Post # 79
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318 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

slomotion :  You’re right, this is pretty old.  Maybe the original poster will come back and review, or perhaps another girl in a similar situation will read through this thread for an assessment of herself if she is too shy to post. 

Post # 80
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Worker bee

bridetobe2018 :  I love reading older posts and sometimes one comes up that’s perfect for what I’m going through. I always wonder why someone points out it’s old? Sometimes I find things that are very relevant. This was a very well thought out post with a lot of valid points that I’m sure many Bees can relate to!

Post # 81
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Worker bee

surftown89 :  I think bees point out it’s old is because some bees will give advice as if it’s new and it serves no purpose except to clog up the main pages with old posts.

what is someone new going to offer that hasn’t been offeeed in 8 pages of posts previously, a year after the fact that could be helpful ?

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