Post # 1
So right now im on my cell with my Fiance crying because my best friend left me at her parents house so she can go on date. I live MA and came down to my other bf’s baby shower. My bfs are twins. The pregnant bf lets call her S asked me if I wanted to sleep at her apt. with her, her Fiance and his cousin. I’m not comfortable with that and the fact i would have to sleep on the couch that someone threw up on the night before. ewww gross!!! I traveled all this way to spend time with them. I undersand its hate for S and totally not mad at her at all!!! Its just my other bf. Ive been alone for a few hours now. My single bf loves to date guys and tells me all the time she goes on dates. She is home for school vaca and so is the guy for the army. i feels likeshe is just boy crazy and secretive about it. since I didnt even know she was gunna leave me until a half hour before. Im just soooooo UPSET!!! My Fiance offered to drive down to get me its 6hrs away. Im really thinking about goin home probabaly not secretly over night but maybe tomorrow night. Am I being dramatic.
Post # 3
I’m think you are being dramatic. You may be in a boring place and feel lonely, but you are safe and can probably find a magazine or book to read or a tv to watch. You have a Fiance who is so sweet to offer and come get you–focus on that goodness and your relationship with him. You are an adult and, in the bigger picture, this is small potatoes.
Post # 4
Honestly if I came 6 hours to see someone and they ditched me I would not stay around. That’s just plain rude, plus if you’re miserable there is no need to hang around.
Post # 5
I would be upset as well. If I drove 6 hours to spend time with a friend and she ditched me to go on a date I would be PISSED. That is very sweet of your Fiance. Think it over and see how you feel in the morning. She may apologise. I would ask her about that nights plans and if she plans on leaving you alone again. If she is, pack up and call it a day.
Post # 6
I wouldn’t stay anywhere I am not comfortable. Esp. after driving 6 hours & only knowing she was leaving an hour or so ahead of time. Not cool!
If my friend drove that far to see me I would be spending ALL day & ALL night with her. She has a week-2 weeks off from school to see guys.
Post # 7
I would be upset if my ‘bf’ ditched me when I’m from out of town and came in to see her -especially if i don’t see her often. If this is just some guy she’s going on a date with then I don’t get it. And if it’s important for her to see him because he’s special to her (and he’s also not in town) then she should have brought that up to you ahead of time and explained she would be busy that night. She shouldn’t have sprung it on you last minute. I would speak with her about it. I would probably be fuming because it seems so inconsiderate of her.
Post # 8
@SiriusOne: I completely agree with this. It sounds like the OP is being a little dramatic. This hardly seems like a situation to be crying about. I could possibly see being a little annoyed, but crying about this is just a little over the top. And why on earth would you be uncomfortable in your bestfriends home? Pour a glass of wine, read a magazine, and tell your bestfriend about herself later (when you’re not so emotional).
Post # 9
@goldie602: oh he’s defianately no one special, she just heard he likes her an I heard he goes around.
Post # 10
I took a 5hr 45 min TRAIN ride!
@SincerelyShe: I can understand where yoy both are coming from but if you know her. its always her way. she calls herself my younger sister but I fed up for being a doormat for her. And her twin and I now we have to stop babying her. we’ve been bf for 16 years!
I would say the tears were a bit much for the situation but I was talking to my Fiance and he was telling me her and our “baby” our cat misses me lol I even heard my kitty meow in the background and got overwelmed in the whole thing. I really just miss home and think I am just gunna go home early if I can refund my train tickets. Im gunna take care of myself
Post # 11
I’d be pissed and would tell my best friend I wasn’t happy. If she’s planning anymore trips out instead of spending time with you then I’d head home, but if not then I’d let it be and enjoy the rest of your trip with her.