(Closed) I hate wedding planning

posted 5 years ago in Logistics
  • poll: Wedding planning opinions, ladies?
    I LOOOOVE wedding planning : (5 votes)
    10 %
    I HATE wedding planning : (7 votes)
    15 %
    Planning my wedding has been easy : (7 votes)
    15 %
    Planning my wedding has been difficult : (6 votes)
    13 %
    I would do it all again : (6 votes)
    13 %
    I would do it all differently : (5 votes)
    10 %
    Sucker! This is why I eloped : (2 votes)
    4 %
    Thank **** you're only supposed to do it once : (10 votes)
    21 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    12827 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I hate the added stress.  Trying to deal with a bunch of extra opinions from people who shouldn’t have opinions (i.e., those not paying for anything)… or figuring out the guest list, and seating chart.  I haven’t even sent out my invitations yet, and I’m already hearing from some people – don’t sit me with X, I don’t like her!  UGH. 

    If I had to do it all again… small destination wedding with as few people as humanly possible. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    1465 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I just dont like the idea of being on display for hours for those that will be meeting me for the first time. You know the one who will say “oh let’s get a look at the bride he chose”. Most of the guest will be from out of town and will not meet me until the day of the wedding or the jack and jill party the nigh before either way I am not in the mood to judged or compared. 

    I am nothing like his first wife in personality, character, etc. to top it off I am Black American/Indian and he is Italian/Irish so you can imagine what I will be dealing with. I would have loved to elope but my FI wants this big elaborate wedding. Secretly, I think he didnt have what he wanted the first time and is making sure he gets everything he wants this time. Great!!!! 🙁

    Sad to say I am not looking forward to the actual day. The ceremony yes, because I will be marrying my better half.

     

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