Post # 1
I had this vision of what my hair would look like on my wedding day and it turned out great. However, I wore my hair half up half down in July. The humitity got to it and I lost a lot of curl before photos were taken. Luckily I had an amazing personal attendant who’s mom is a hairdresser and my PA had brought a curling iron and some hairspray, etc. to fix me up in case of any issues. Well, I trusted her…. and my hair looked crazy in my family formals! I almost cry looking at them and I’ve been obsessing about what I could have done differently the past 6 months!!! If the hairdresser would have initally just used more hairspray or if I would have hairsprayed the heck out of it it would have stayed and my friend would have never had to fix it. I feel bad because she was really trying to help but…. one curl is just so much longer than the others in EVERY PICTURE and I can’t get over it! I Felt like my hair looked UGLY for those pics, and those are the pics family want– ones with them in them 🙁 I know I can’t do anything about it but I felt ugly. Be honest. Should I just not give these photos out?? I otherwise had an amazing wedding day… but the family formals are just ugly of me.
Post # 3
You look beautiful! I don’t think your hair looks bad at all and I only am looking at it really because you are talking about how much you don’t like it.
Post # 4
After reading your post (before I looked at the pictures), I was expecting some horrible hair. Your hair looks great!!! If it’s not what you invisioned no one would know except you. You look fab! Hand out the pictures!
Post # 5
Honestly, I think you look beautiful in both pics and I can hardly tell what you are talking about. I think that we each obsess over something and other people look at us like “huh?”. I can’t imagine anyone saying that you or your hair looks ugly in any of these pictures and if they do- hey they don’t have to get one!
Post # 6
I don’t see a thing wrong with your hair. It looks beautiful to me, and I never would have thought twice about it if you hadn’t said anything.
Post # 7
honestly you’re the only one that notices that one curl is longer than the other – and even after reading it I’m still trying to find what you’re seeing because YOU LOOK STUNNING!
I’m definitely like you though, so critical of myself in pictures… my wedding is in two weeks and I know there will be things in pictures that I don’t like but really, these pictures are beautiful 🙂
Post # 8
I think you looked amazing! I really don’t think your hair looks terrible at all! In fact, when I opened this post and looked at the pictures I thought “her hair looks amazing..not terrible!”
Post # 9
No one will EVER notice. I think you are being so critical because it’s you in the pictures. I personally think you look absolutely lovely. I would never notice anything wrong with your hair, and I still don’t notice anything that looks wrong with your hair, even after you’ve pointed it out! I would also like to point out that I am a perfectionist, so I would be honest if I did see something wrong, just sayin! haha. Love your hair color, by the way 🙂
Post # 10
@kbop13:Stop obsessing over the couple you don’t like and find a few that you love and send those to everyone. Trust me, you are not the first person who does not like a picture of themself. Choose a good picture when you thought your hair was beautiful or an action shot and send those:0) It’s okay. BTW….your hair looks fine.
Post # 11
I think your hair looks beautiful. We’re always much more critical of ourselves. I guarantee no-one notices the one curl thats a little longer than the other.
Post # 12
I honestly have no idea what you’re talking about. Even after you told me what I was looking for. You look gorgeous, and your hair is absolutely lovely. Really!
Post # 13
I think each person is their own worst enemy. I say this because we all look at the pictures and see a bride that looks beautiful, peaceful and happy! Your hair looks beautiful to me and that is probably why your family wants these pics, they are so proud of you. Their daughter looks so pretty in these pictures and that’s how they view it. What our parents/family sees and how we see ourselves are sometimes not the same — I can guarantee you that your parents think you look beautiful and they want to show it off. You would want to show off your daughter, too! 🙂
Post # 14
I have to agree with the rest of the bees, you look beautiful. Not one person is going to be paying attention to your hair. Send those photos out girl! You look great!
Post # 15
You look lovely! Please try not to worry.
Post # 16
Thanks for the encouragement! The rest of my day was great! Here’s a less formal pic of me and my hubby that we absolutely love! I just cant get over the family formals for some reason! Maybe I’m ocd… But my hair frizzed and lost curl so bad after the ceremony that I ended up putting it up for the reception… here’s a pic of that. Was that a good choice??