Post # 1
We are having a mid size wedding. About 100 people. My fiance has lots of extended family his one step cousin is actually a friend who we happen to hang out with & he has a brother who we never see except at the odd family function. He just got married this year too & we were not invited.
If I invite our friend my fiances couin do we have to invite his other stp cousin & new wife?
Post # 3
i think if you weren’t invited to theirs.. maybe not. however if there are going to be a lot of hurt feelings, maybe better to invite them!
Post # 4
I’m going to say, like what I’m planning to do – only invite the people you have anything to do with.
I don’t see the point of paying for a relatives/distant relative/monkeys uncle hospitality, if you don’t have any relationship with them, and probably won’t after the wedding. But that’s what I think, I’m sure they will understand, just say the budget can’t stretch that far 🙂
Post # 5
I probably wouldn’t invite him, the way we are doing it for family is, if we have talked to them within the past year then we are inviting them. Since they didn’t invite you to their wedding, I would say no.
Post # 6
I would say that you don’t have to invite them. You’re inviting the other cousin because he’s a friend… the fast that he’s kind of related to your Fiance doesn’t have anything to do with it.
Post # 7
Thanks everyone! I’m also a realtor & they felt no need to use me as their agent either. That’s how I felt to but wanted some other thoughts.
Happy new year everyone’s!!
Post # 9
I agree with everyone: I wouldn’t invite him either.