I have a question about anal sex/play…

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Ha no, thankfully neither of us wants to do that. But I have told him “imagine having that shoved in your butthole – that’s what it would feel like for me,” and he was horrified. Not sure why men thinks it feels different for women, but I think that was a learning moment for him.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Um I hope that doesn’t mean he would have something in his booty, ugh, don’t even wanna think about that..

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

Okay, I can’t help but think it’s funny your name is “Pokeman” and your post is about poking the booty!  Sorry!  Tongue Out

To respond to your question, I’ve never talked about it with my hubby…but, have with other partners.  Oh, and some fella’s like butt plugs. 

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

@redheadem:  Just want to say that while this sort of thing isn’t my favorite, we do it on occasion and it can be pretty fun. It’s a lot different than “getting something shoved in your butthole” – I mean, is that how sex is for you in general?  If so, yikes.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

@Pokemon:  I know, I know.  It just stood out to me for some reason.  heehee

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2011

Some guys like some attention paid to their butt.  Not my DH but other guys I’ve been with really enjoyed it. 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’m interpreting this question more as you asking if the man is more open to anal play on HIS person. I could be wrong though.

For many men, anal play is very pleasurable, if they relax. The prostate gland can lead to intense orgasms when pressed. However, a lot of straight men are uncomfortable talking about it because they don’t want to be perceived as “gay.” As for toys, some men like them, and some don’t. Most I know do not. The very, very few I know that do are gay or they stick to small ones mostly just to stimulate the outside region more than the inside.

Everyone has different tastes and desires.

If you are interested in doing this with your man because he is interested in anal play with you, then just talk to him.

But then again, I could have completed fucked up reading that question.

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

We’ve tried  to do anal but i’m too tight back there and he’s kinda big….not that it’s a bad thing 😀  Maybe i’ll eventually loosen up a little more! lol

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

He doesn’t want anything near his, but he is fascinated by mine. I go along with it because I don’t really care one way or another. We never discussed it. He just did it one day and was enjoying himself so much that I wasn’t going to ruin his fun.

Post # 14
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Busy bee

I’m never going to be able to think of Pikachu or Jigglypuff in quite the same way….

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Nope. not for this girl.

 

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

FI is a really good size, I have done anal with a few partners before but when I saw FI for the first time, I told him your not coming near me with that thing…I was afraid of vaginal penetration he is so large…

However we got past it, he however wouldnt let anyone near his anal region, Im cool with that because Im not into touching his, however there are generally ways to relax. The key is patience and not just shoving it in. 

I love it after I relax…generally its a good time for me…

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