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Woah. That really is crazy. Perhaps you should think about a restraining order if you think she's any real physical danger? She sounds like an absolute nutter! Also, you should probably both change your phone numbers so she can't text any more and block her on your FB accounts.
lol what a psycho!!!! I had to deal with a girl like this when I was dating my ex boyfriend. Luckily she backed off after a while, but it was soo annoying while she did it.
WOW! I dont have an arch nemisis but yours sounds bad enough for the both of us! Can you put a restraining order against her and have your FH de friend her on FB? What does he have to say about all this?
If she is sending you threatening emails and texts and falsely calling the police then I would think you can get a restraining order against her.
I've tried getting a restraining order twice, no luck since she's never shown aggression towards me and I can't PROVE its her sending me things even if its coming from her address blah blah blah. Plus now we live 10 hours away from each other. I've basically been told there is nothing I can do :( I've changed my number once but she got my new number and I didn't want to go through the hassle again. I don't have FB anymore and she is blocked on FH's but she created an entirely NEW facebook, I swear it was just so she could message him!! This girl is nuts! I wouldn't be surprised if she had a Wedding Bee account and was stalking me on here too!!! Oh and FH agrees she is a PSYCHO crazy person, he calls her something different than stupid ugly girl but its a little inappropriate for WB :)
Why on earth is he still FB friends with her?
Oops - nevermind - just saw your last message - yep she's a nutcase.
Wow that IS crazy! My advice? I would look into filing a harrassment suit against her if she doesn't leave you alone. Keep all the texts, letters, etc as evidence. Change the FB status so only friends can view your FH's profile/pics. Do you have a copy of the letter from your boss?
I'm sorry :(. If the filing the harrasment thing doesn't work, I think you can block certain numbers on your phone & you can mark 'refused, return to sender' for your mail. You can also block certain people from your FB account. Just don't reply to anything she sends & ignore her if she calls.
Yeesh. I have an arch-nemesis too, but mine is nothing compared to yours. Mine is FI's former roommate. I actually met FI through his roommate (let's call her Jane), since Jane and I were on a sports team together. What I didn't know was that Jane had moved in with FI, even though she had a giant crush on him, thinking that maybe moving in together would make them "more than friends". Of course that didn't happen since FI had no attraction or romantic feelings towards Jane. So then FI met me when he was out at a party with Jane. Well, Jane completely couldn't handle that FI liked me, and not her. She pretty much made life miserable for us for the next two years as FI and I started dating and falling in love. After two years Jane moved out, and it was pretty much the happiest day of my life. Luckily, Jane has no stalker-ish tendancies like your FI's ex. So basically, we no longer have any relationship with Jane, and everything is peachy keen! Still, I wonder what things would have been like if Jane had decided to grow up a little bit and deal with the fact that FI and I were dating. We could have all been friends, and it would have been so much more fun for everyone involved.
i swear yours is mine's twin sister. i call her the HEIFER. its FH's ex, and she has tried EVERYTHING to get us broken up. she spread rumors about me at work, tried to tell FH i was cheating, all lies and crap, and thankfully he knows this.
after about 4 years of this crap shes calmed down mostly since FH never sees her anymore (they work at the same place but thankfully now have different shifts) but everytime we have to be in the same space (once a year during a memorial and festival thing for our jobs) she rears her ugly ass head.
i hope she falls of the end of the earth.
FI's ex wife is completely insane. They have been divorced for over 4 years and she still is talking shit about me whenever she can. She has even forced people to choose between being friends with us or her. Complete nutter if you ask me. Besides she is super ugly and has horrible teeth.
I have an arch nemesis, her name is Mrs. Crazy. FI hasn't talked to her in years (until this past Nov when she stalked him, emailed him, demanded an invitation to our wedding, tried to set FI up with her daughter, and (yes, in that order), and calls my FI "son". She makes me want to vomit and I hope she RSVPs "no", but if she decides to show her face I am well prepared.
Wow I have had some bad experiences with crazy people but when i cut them out of my life it has ended there and unless i run into them somewhere back home i don't ever have to deal with it. I couldn't imagine having someone act like this. It is the definition of crazy and I would find a lawyer who can tell you the best way to approach it.
@virginiamarie - WHY ON EARTH DID YOU SEND THE INVITE!?!??! *cough*lostinmail*cough* lol
My arch-nemesis is my ex (we call him $hithead) - we have been apart for like 5 years, and I have been with FH for almost 4 years.
This guy was not good for me, and I finally wised up after a 2 year relationship and cut ties completely (sent his stuff back in a box on a bus etc). He would get info about what I was doing through mutual friends, and would call me in the middle of the night, email me, etc at least a few times a month. This has gone on without fail for years. I have no interest in communicating with him. I spoke with a family friend who is a police officer, and there is nothing I can do since he isn't more than a "nuisance". I changed my number when I moved cities, and he no longer calls, and blocked his email - but he insists on emailing from other addresses. I do think I will have to delete that email address to get rid of him. Luckily the guy hasn't found me on facebook (yet) but I have my privacy setting so that he wouldn't be able to add me (I think)
@spaganya: that's hilarious!
But I was wondering the same thing! Why DID you invite her?
@Spaganya, right???? Well I made the mistake abut asking FI if we could forego the invite so much that he said "VM, I expect that they'll receive an invitation, AND that it be on time". Ughhhh, he was on to me! I should have shut up and then claimed it got lost int he mail.
are they like old family friends or something?! why would he even want crazy lady there?! lesson learned on the invite thing :) lol you poor thing. hopefully even if she DOES decide to come, you wont notice her there. SMH...
I have an arch nemesis. TWO actually. The female is usually called Biscuit. The male, we call him Free Willy. And yes, I mean willy as in penis.
What a psycho!! I have dealt with this after fighting with an ex friend. She sent me nasty texts and calls and spread rumors, so I definitely know how it is.. GOOD LUCK
I also have an Arch Nemesis as you put it.
My Little Miss Nutso was a fling my FI had after we had a huge fight and broke up to get some distance, they were dating for about 5 weeks. She is a psycho freak, and I don't think her drug habit helps that much. (seriously)
She tried to manipulate him by saying that if he ever left her she would throw herself and her 7 year old son in front of a bus and kill them both. My FI currently has 2 jobs, one of them is as a the resident DJ at the local Pub, where he has been for almost 10 years. Well when she was with him she attacked 3 girls with Pool Ques at the Pub because she thought they were chatting him up when they were making requests. She was barred for 3 months, the pub didnt get the police involved as a favour to him.
She used to follow me around in her car and watch me, and I used to run a mobile dog grooming business and she would circle the block watching me as I was working at a Clients House.
After they broke up she told him that she was pregnant, then 2 days later she told him that she miss carried and couldnt survive without him.
Several months after they broke up, I was pregnant and moved in to live with him and she walked into the house (which I used to always leave the door open as the neighbour would come and go as he pleased, but not anymore, now its always locked), anyway she walked in uninvited demanding to see him and she started yelling at me. I retreated to my room to get my car keys to get out of there and she followed me and had me cornered and told me that I had ruined her life and stolden her best friend. She screamed that she "knew" people and was going to have me and the baby killed, and then she would laugh becuase he would hate me for it. After I got out of the house and locked it, she followed me in her car and then dissapeared. She doubled back and broke a window to get back into the house. Not exactly the encounter I needed when I was 7 months pregnant.....I went to the police about that incident, but there was no prood as I had been the only one hiome and none of the neighbours witnessed it either. The next day she rang him and told him she was in hospital and had tried to overdose herself because of the way I had spoken to her. I was there for that phone conversation, he was like well I don't care, what about my window in my house. her excuse....she thought she had left her phone in the lounge room.......yeah right
After our child was born she kept contacting him to talk about her new boyfriend, and to say how sorry she felt for him that he had no family close by....(excuse me what about me and his child???) Then she arranged for him to have christmas day at her Mums house and rang him and told him she had arranged it and he had to turn up as her mum had bought food for him, she wouldnt be there was she was having christmas with her new boyrfirend, but she couldnt bare the thought of him being alone......again.....umm excuse me what about me and his daughter???? needless to say, he didnt go there for christmas.
And now she is on facebook leaving him cutsey lovey dovey messages. I hate it, I can't stand it. I feel she has no right to talk to him about our child after the way she acted. I have told him how I felt, and while he doesnt seek contact out with her he wont block her on Facebook because he says thats not his thing, he doesnt cut people off like that.
Apparently she recently moved from the local area, so its a relief not having to worry about walking into her at the supermarket. Facebook is bad enough!!
So I totally understand where you are coming from. Why do these Exs have to pop up that just can't let go, and can't get their own life. I have Ex's and I can't say that I have ever stalked them in that manner. There is definantly some crazy out there in this world.
@Firie : Wow. The fact that he won't block her isn't cool at all. She's proven to be a danger to you and it may not be "his thing" but if anything were to happen to you how would he feel about it? Why would he want her in his life anyway?
To Potatoes
It is one of the rare times we have had a fight about something recently. And it was a doozy of a fight. I posted on WB before about it looking for others opinions. When we both calmed down we spoke about it quite openly and he made his reasons clear.
At this stage I made the choice to let the whole FB issue rest and not stamp my feet about it. But that said I made it quite clear I expect to be informed of any and all messages, and she is to come no where near me and our daughter.
I made my opinions clear, I deleted my facebook account so I don't have to deal with it in my face. And so far I am dealing with with the facebook thing as long as there is no chance of it turning up unexpected on my door one day!!!
Wow I am sooo sorry you are dealing with this. So sounds like a raging loon! You would think that after 5 YEARS so would move on. Wow! Just wow!
haha i did, or at least i thought i had an arch-nemesis until i read this post :P mine is NOTHING compared to yours...
well good on you for sticking through it all.
yup this girl is a super nutjob. She's clearly still in love with your fiance and will go to great lengths to make you look bad in front of him, and to others. This girl needs a reality check. Someone needs to pop that bubble she's living in. Seriously.
And yes, I have an arch nemesis as well. She's always trying to create drama between me and my sister. She's the same age as me and doesn't have an older sister like I do. She only has a brother. Her personality is horrible. The way she treats others is more disgusting. I really hope I don't ever bump into her ever again.
crazy! the very fact that she hasnt given up would cause me to worry. I'd phone the police I really would, my fiance is a police officer and the amount of things that happen that have similar circumstances you wouldnt believe. Get an harrassment order or something like that! She is obviously besotted with him and you know what women like that are like. I hope everything works out for you and she backs off, must be a nightmare. But in my opinion you do need to do something to put a stop to it once and for all and show her she can't get away this this mad behaviour!
My goodness hearing yall stories made me realize that some ppl are CRAZY!! Good luck I hope you find a real solution soon.
Wow... there are some SERIOUS crazies out there!! I dont have an arch nemesis.. thank goodness!!
Holy crazies! I'm sorry that you all have to go through all of these ex's contacting your FIs and husbands! I hope they leave you all alone soon!
The thing I have come to realize about stupid ugly girl is that she LIVES off the attention it gives her when we respond to in any way. We just ignore anything she does now b/c we both know she is lying. I don't answer my phone if I don't recognize the number, same goes for emails, letters, etc. If I don't know what it is I throw it out. I've never felt or been physically threatened by this girl like Firie, that is a different level of crazy!! If I was worried that she would hurt me or him then yes I would be more adament about getting the poice involved, but since that's not the case I'd rather just not have anything to do with her.
Yes I do...I call her crazy b**ch. It's my FH's brother's gf. I might add that I can't stand the brother either. Neither of them are invited to the wedding.
This girl in for a serious face bashing whenever I see her. She has kept a lot of drama kicked up with me and my FH and his family since he and I have been together. She is extremely jealous of me and wants the life I live. Everyone sees it and has said it. She lives at home with her mother at the age of 25 with two kids. No job and no motivation to get one. Instead she's getting welfare. The only thing she does is sit around and stalk me.
She stalks me on myspace and on FB, going as far as making fake FB pages and even using her mom's FB page to stalk me...now if that's not crazy I don't know what is. Oh I know...what about setting up her myspace page to look like it's been hacked and then telling his whole family that I'm the one who did it. Constantly talking sh*t about me to other ppl. I swear she has it coming. Ever since we've been engaged, there has been some drama with her about every other month.
This isnt a personal story..
but a friend of mine was back in her home town for her birthday last year.. and she met up with some of her old college and high school buddies and then had her brother and his wife come out with them too. Well his wife wasnt feeling good, but since my friend was in town she went home and told her husband (my friends brother) to stay and hang out. Well throughout the night they all got very drunk. One of my friends high school friends, lets call her "J" is married to my friends ex-bf (which is weird all on its own). Anywho so the last bar they went to my friend was walking to the bathroom and saw "J" and her brother making out. She told them all it was time to leave and about a mile down the road, stop the car and pulled "J" out and told her to leave her and her brother alone and she needed to be done with them. Well my friend goes home and then 6 months later she got a message on her fb from "J" saying that "J" and my friends brother had a 6 month affair after that night but she ended it because my friends brother and his wife were talking about having a baby.
Low and behold this chick is a liar.. she contacted my friend so that she would call her sister in law and rat her brother out and end their marraige. Mind you "J" is married and has a 6 year old son. Well my friend wrote a very nasty email to "J" and told her if she didnt leave her brother alone, she would go down to Florida and handle "J" herself. So "J" calls the brother and tells him if my friend doesnt leave her alone, or in any way tried to harm her, she ("J") would make the brothers life a living hell. Well things have calmed down and apparently "J" decided to message my friend yesterday and tell her she is now going to cosmotology school (my friend does CND nails and hair) and that she "wanted to be just like her.. in every way".
Talk about psycho!!
Girls I don't care what you have to do but submit it all in writing and get it on record somewhere that you are being harassed. This is CRAZY behavior and it's bitches like these that inspire lifetime movies. I'd start sharpening my finger nails and get my hair pulling skills up to speed if I were you, ha.
Oh my goodness, I am so sorry you are going through this! I don't have an arch nemesis, but in the beginning of our relationship I thought that his ex was going to give us major problems. She was a nuisance up until she realized that she wasn't going to get anywhere, and that their relationship was over. She used to try and text him late at night, and she wanted him to come over to her house because she claimed she couldn't sleep and she missed him. He also was told by her that she would never have a good relationship with his son if they weren't together. And then she told him that being in a relationship with me was a bad idea because it was so soon after they ended things, but since their relationship died a long time ago, he wasn't buying it.
Anyhow, he told her to stop texting his phone and calling unless it regarded their son. And he wasn't about to lose the best thing that has ever happened to him because of her craziness. Once he put her into her place and she realized their relationship was truly over, everything got better. She is really nice and polite to him, even asks about our daughter (he is adopting my 4 year old after we are married) and even knows we are pregnant and is completely fine with it.
I have a nemesis and it is a dude. This doesn't even have to do with boy drama. Hubby's old roommate (he didn't get a choice in it) verbally attacked me all the time. One time I was drinking at a pub with some friends, he was wearing a dinosaur t-shirt and we disagreed over what kind of dinosaur it was. I've never been rude or unfriendly to this guy and suddenly he starts attacking me, "WTF! You are such a b*tch Kristin! You are so cold and rude to me all the time! You are a stuck up, mean girl!" All this over a dinosaur t-shirt. I was just joking around and he exploded. After that he attacked me on facebook, again in person, and through other people. I tried to find out what it was that I did, what was bothering him, but he never gave me an answer, just that I was an "unfriendly person" who "didn't want to try to get along". Ummm, okay. I am the one that has a mature attitude about this, trying to resolve things, you are the one that is being vicious and attacking. So I'm pretty sure I'm not a bitch and nobody has ever accused me of being cold or rude. Finally after he attacked me on Facebook I went off on him, blocked him completely, and cut all our mutual friends out of my life (they were bad eggs anyway!). Now my life is drama free!
my FI had a crazy ex in the beginning.... well, we blocked her numbers and emails, but obviously she just used someone elses phone. so what we did was told her we were changing our numbers. then we made the outgoing message the generic voicemail chick and took the ring back tone off the phone then had the phone companies make our numbers unlisted...the prob went away quick.... and if u wanna add a cherry to the top, one day if she calls have a stranger answer and say she has the wrong number and this is his/her new number. lol, worked like a charm. also, i would just charge it to the game and change the email addresses of you and FI....that way one,she cant email you, and two, she cant say your emailing her cause she wont know your email addy. and remeber,above all, keep all the evidence in case one day you need a restraining order.... ole crazy ho.... i promise if u stay one step ahead of her, she will go away.
oh and if u go to verizon or call them, u can block her number....and AND...catch this, i went up and talked to them and told em she was stalking us, he was so inraged that he wanted to find out if she was verizon too,cause if so, they can block text messages too...but he called and found out she want verizon, but my "we changed our number" thing worked so it ended up being fine. but your best bet is to go talk to someone at verizon or your carrier and be real sweet and try and get em on your side, they can give u options......oh and remeber one thing, keep all evidence...always, and good that your talking with the police, cause if she pulls something stupid you will have the reports showing her previous insane behavior....also, if u have documented reports of incidents...more than likely eventually you will get your restraining order. just keep all evidence and remeber, a police report is evidence....
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That's right I have an arch-nemesis and I call her stupid ugly girl. She is FH's ex girlfriend and she is a PSYCHO!!! Seriously!! In the 5+ years I have been with FH stupid ugly girl has gone to great lengths to break us up, she sent a letter to my old boss claiming I was a crack head and stealing, she has sent me letters, emails, texts, and has called to tell me a million and 1 things. When me and FH took a short break during college she sent me a text informing me that the two got married and FH didn't want me calling him ever again and not to even bother...ya shes crazy. Well now that we are engaged things have been quiet up until a few weeks ago when stupid ugly girl FB messaged FH and informed him that she had to call the police because (get this) I was sending her threatening letters and emails and calling her. UGH!!! WTH?!?! Can this girl not get a life? I mean seriously?!?! Anyone else have an arch-nemesis or crazy person they have to deal with???