(Closed) I have an Arch-Nemesis…anyone else?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Woah. That really is crazy. Perhaps you should think about a restraining order if you think she’s any real physical danger? She sounds like an absolute nutter! Also, you should probably both change your phone numbers so she can’t text any more and block her on your FB accounts.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

lol what a psycho!!!!  I had to deal with a girl like this when I was dating my ex boyfriend.  Luckily she backed off after a while, but it was soo annoying while she did it.

Post # 5
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2682 posts
Sugar bee

WOW! I dont have an arch nemisis but yours sounds bad enough for the both of us!  Can you put a restraining order against her and have your FH de friend her on FB?  What does he have to say about all this?

If she is sending you threatening emails and texts and falsely calling the police then I would think you can get a restraining order against her.

Post # 7
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2634 posts
Sugar bee

Why on earth is he still FB friends with her?

 

Oops – nevermind – just saw your last message – yep she’s a nutcase.

Post # 8
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3041 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Wow that IS crazy! My advice? I would look into filing a harrassment suit against her if she doesn’t leave you alone. Keep all the texts, letters, etc as evidence. Change the FB status so only friends can view your FH’s profile/pics. Do you have a copy of the letter from your boss?

I’m sorry :(. If the filing the harrasment thing doesn’t work, I think you can block certain numbers on your phone & you can mark ‘refused, return to sender’ for your mail. You can also block certain people from your FB account. Just don’t reply to anything she sends & ignore her if she calls.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Yeesh.  I have an arch-nemesis too, but mine is nothing compared to yours.  Mine is FI’s former roommate.  I actually met FI through his roommate (let’s call her Jane), since Jane and I were on a sports team together.  What I didn’t know was that Jane had moved in with FI, even though she had a giant crush on him, thinking that maybe moving in together would make them “more than friends”.  Of course that didn’t happen since FI had no attraction or romantic feelings towards Jane.  So then FI met me when he was out at a party with Jane.  Well, Jane completely couldn’t handle that FI liked me, and not her.  She pretty much made life miserable for us for the next two years as FI and I started dating and falling in love.  After two years Jane moved out, and it was pretty much the happiest day of my life.  Luckily, Jane has no stalker-ish tendancies like your FI’s ex.  So basically, we no longer have any relationship with Jane,  and everything is peachy keen!  Still, I wonder what things would have been like if Jane had decided to grow up a little bit and deal with the fact that FI and I were dating.  We could have all been friends, and it would have been so much more fun for everyone involved.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

i swear yours is mine’s twin sister. i call her the HEIFER. its FH’s ex, and she has tried EVERYTHING to get us broken up. she spread rumors about me at work, tried to tell FH i was cheating, all lies and crap, and thankfully he knows this.

after about 4 years of this crap shes calmed down mostly since FH never sees her anymore (they work at the same place but thankfully now have different shifts) but everytime we have to be in the same space (once a year during a memorial and festival thing for our jobs) she rears her ugly ass head.

i hope she falls of the end of the earth.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

FI’s ex wife is completely insane.  They have been divorced for over 4 years and she still is talking shit about me whenever she can.  She has even forced people to choose between being friends with us or her.  Complete nutter if you ask me. Besides she is super ugly and has horrible teeth.

Post # 12
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1897 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I have an arch nemesis, her name is Mrs. Crazy.  FI hasn’t talked to her in years (until this past Nov when she stalked him, emailed him, demanded an invitation to our wedding, tried to set FI up with her daughter, and (yes, in that order), and calls my FI “son”.   She makes me want to vomit and I hope she RSVPs “no”, but if she decides to show her face I am well prepared.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Wow I have had some bad experiences with crazy people but when i cut them out of my life it has ended there and unless i run into them somewhere back home i don’t ever have to deal with it. I couldn’t imagine having someone act like this. It is the definition of crazy and I would find a lawyer who can tell you the best way to approach it. 

Post # 14
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2186 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@virginiamarie – WHY ON EARTH DID YOU SEND THE INVITE!?!??! *cough*lostinmail*cough* lol

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

My arch-nemesis is my ex (we call him $hithead) – we have been apart for like 5 years, and I have been with FH for almost 4 years.

This guy was not good for me, and I finally wised up after a 2 year relationship and cut ties completely (sent his stuff back in a box on a bus etc). He would get info about what I was doing through mutual friends, and would call me in the middle of the night, email me, etc at least a few times a month. This has gone on without fail for years. I have no interest in communicating with him. I spoke with a family friend who is a police officer, and there is nothing I can do since he isn’t more than a “nuisance”. I changed my number when I moved cities, and he no longer calls, and blocked his email – but he insists on emailing from other addresses. I do think I will have to delete that email address to get rid of him. Luckily the guy hasn’t found me on facebook (yet) but I have my privacy setting so that he wouldn’t be able to add me (I think)

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@spaganya: that’s hilarious!

 

But I was wondering the same thing! Why DID you invite her?

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