(Closed) I have anxiety! I am a mess! (Vent)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
201 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

It sounds like you’re an emotional mess… I can completely identify. I’ve been on a roller coaster of emotions for the last month and felt really guilty about it. I thought I was supposed to be happy and excited all the time, but instead I’ve been irritable and flip out for no reason. I know I want to marry my Fiance, but I wasn’t feeling the way I thought I was supposed to. Lurking around the hive didn’t help: everyone here seems so happy all the time!

On Monday I couldn’t take it anymore and decided I needed to figure out why I was acting so… unlike myself. I added “Emotionally Engaged: A Bride’s Guide to Surviving the “Happiest” Time of Her Life” to my Kindle (it was the only “I’m a crazy bride” book that had a Kindle version) and just finished it yesterday. I feel SO MUCH BETTER!! I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders and I finally understand my emotions. Before I read the book, it didn’t occur to me that I’m about to make a huge life change. My relationships with my family, friends, and future husband will be forever altered. Although I can’t wait to be married, I’m also mourning the loss of my independent, single lifestyle… and that’s ok! I highly, highly recommend that you buy the book (or some equivalent). I think it will help you better understand what you’re going through and why.



Post # 4
1183 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I wouldn’t bother following up with the company. I would call your bank or the credit card company you paid with and explain the situation. In my experience, they will credit your money back and follow up for you!

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