Post # 1
We were now almost getting along with Future Brother-In-Law and his “fiance”. I was being super nice and she saw my makeup trial pics. She said I looked beautiful and proceeded to ask about my dress that I just got in the mail, my true dream dress, she was happy I found it. I have always had skinny arms, always! She said Future Brother-In-Law said I loked sick and they were “worried” about me. I said I was fine. Sure I was under the normal wedding stress. She kept saying when you lose weight, it goes in the most supple areas first… ok???? Then you get more old looking and wrinkly. Again, ok?? I said jokingly “yeah I look so old and wrinkly huh?” in a text and she said “honestly you do, and sick” I was like WTF? Who tells someone that. She said ” i dont sugarcoat things bc we are “family” She is short and really overweight. I have NEVER in a million yrs put her down nor would I. Even though my weight has been brought up several times in the past with both of them. That I am too skinny,esp for having 3 kids.
Yes, after all my daughters,it made me skinnier. I dont know how but I was kinda bigger in HS and my 2nd one I was like a 7/9. 3rd one I was back in 5 after breastfeeding her like in a month. I bartend and serve so I run around alot. Fiance said I am fine. I have lost a little in the bum area but other than that, I am healthy and perfect weight 115:) WHO the HELL tells someone this???? I was sooo happy with my dress and that things were coming along and then she pretty much tells me I am anorexic. Which I am not. I Have had it! I never really argue with her but this time I let her have it. Then got called crazy and I was ranting lol! I said “Well you would not like it if I brought up ur weight and bursted your bubble,would you?” No answer except that she is planning a wedding too and I cannot use that as an excuse to lose weight. Ok, bc you are the expert. Just constantly kept putting me down. The way I dress bc I wear shorts higher than she would or thin strapped shirts aka tank tops lol. Just a number of things. I just said I do not need this or didn’t expect it from her. I guess being ” family” we are supposed to call each other out and names. Id like to call her some things but refrained from doing so. UGhhhh!!!! SO DONE WITH HER!!! She is preventing Future Brother-In-Law to have much contact with the family, just her side. Its sad and this was it! Like going thru all my Facebook photos and said I looked more “supple” Ummmm my arms look the same!
Guess my age?? pic she saw and made the comment, I have ALWAYS had skinny arms.
Ahhh my wrinkly self and face
Post # 3
This sounds like something said out of petty jealousy and nothing more. She is a bitch. Plain and simple. Be done with her.
You look awesome and I wish my arms looked like yours! And I can’t believe you are old enough to have three kids! Hot Mom Alert!
Post # 4
Wow, you look great! Love the dress.
Ignore her. You can’t fix petty or jealous.
Post # 5
Fiance said I look fine. He would tell me and so would my mom when I went to OKC a cpl wks ago….
Post # 6
at least 150 years old!! looking good though
Honestly she must be on crack – I’m not guessing your age but you look fantastic, not a wrinkle in sight and absolutely lovely in that dress. I wouldn’t even waste time thinking of why she is saying that, just forget about it, don’t stress and love being the beauty you are 🙂
Post # 7
Unfortunately, being skinny will always bring up these comments. I weight 100-110 (I flucuate) and I can’t tell you how many times I came home crying because a girl would tell me I was sick and anorexic. Before I really knew what it was, I asked my mom if I was and she was shocked that girls were saying stuff like that. Once at work, an older woman (50) that was a coworker started in on my weight and didn’t stop for about 15 minutes while I just stood there, shocked. It sucks!
I always try to tell myself that those people are just jealous and frustrated with their own weight.
Post # 8
Agree with @MsMindle, she’s jealous, you are obviously everything she isn’t (body type wise). I don’t think you look old at all or too skinny (some people just have that as their body type, kind of like how I’ll always be curvy, it’s genetics).
Your dress is gorgeous and I’d say you look young. I’m not good at guessing ages! How old are you? Now I’m curious!
Post # 9
I’m not that great with ages… but I’d say you are somewhere around 30 (27 to 31 maybe)
And for the record… 30 isn’t OLD… 30 is wonderful !!
Ahhh, to be 30 again, truly the apple of one’s adulthood… mature enough not to be a kid, but kid enough to have a ton of fun and do anything and everything under the sun
The world is your oyster at 30.
Lol, some people are just stupid. And well as the saying goes “there isn’t a cure for stupid”
PS… you look great for someone who has had 3 kids !!And “the dress” is fantastic… you look amazing in it. Congratulations and enjoy your BIG DAY !!
Post # 10
It’s ok, people always tell me to eat because I’m too skinny. Actually, I eat A LOT–I am just very active and can’t gain weight even if I try. I love it. I don’t appreciate when people tell me stuff like that. It’s not like I go around saying hey, you’re overweight… No, because it’s impolite. Ignore her, you look great.
Post # 11
Ugh, so annoying! My family always tells me that I’m way too thin as well and it bugs the hell out of me! My mom always asks me if I’m anorexic. I weigh about 110 and couldn’t gain weight if I tried! Ignore her, she obviously has some issues of her own if she needs to put you down to make herself feel better.
Post # 12
She said I have big hands but sklnny lol I am a sz 4 ring! Haha. I know she might be jealous bc she has one kid, 2 and still pretty big…. But I would never call her a fat cow 😉 Its not right
Post # 13
Pfff. Whatever. You look great she’s just mad.
Post # 14
@Sheesh19:ME TOO!!! Its hard to gain weight esp.working nights and having kids at home…. I eat alot though when I do. LOTS of carbs! I am starting to work out and pump some iron/tone up but still… this is the only person ever to get under my skin and I think she knows it. From bashing my dresses, just last wk that I looked too young in it or didnt have the body to pull off certain ones. I just ignore her for now on. Seriously.
Post # 15
stop fishing for compliments
is this the girl who said she was wearing a white lace dress to your wedding? Why do you even give her the time of day.