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Agh! I'm sorry, that stinks :( I almost had to invite someone I didn't like, but thankfully got out of it! WHEW! This is the one day you don't wanna be irritated by people like that.
Not everyone is going to like you, but he doesn't have to be such a d!ck about it. Maybe make sure your friend knows he is free to not come if he'd rather not!
His defriending you is completely immature. Don't sweat it though; not everyone is going to like you. And, if he does end up coming to your wedding, you'll be soo busy with everything else, you'll forget he is even there.
OMG the same thing happened to me. My FH’s good friend’s wife defriended me on FB too & my FH is planning on inviting them to our Sept 2012 wedding. I never cared for her anyways & she never talked to me when we went out on group dates. So now I’m debating on mentioning to him, that I don’t want someone I don’t like & doesn’t like me at my wedding. I like my FH’s friend though. He’s a really nice guy – too bad he has a b*tch of a wife for the rest of his life. I’m hoping his friend comes & leaves her home.
Update!
He told his girfriend "They're your friends, not mine. I don't want to go."
I did a happy dance inside when she told me. However, she then went on to complain that she was annoyed he didn't want to go with her. When I shared the other people she would at the wedding she only made faces (like they aren't good enough for her...whatevah!)
booo..i know how that feel! A good friend (FI and I thought he was one of our bestfriends)..defriended and blocked me on FB (still friend with FI). He was the reason we met and we were looking forward to celebrating the wedding with him..but he has cut us out of his life. :(
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The person who de-friended me on Facebook is actually my work-friend's boyfriend. He works in the same office, different department. I have always had the impression that her boyfriend doesn't like me or FH and frankly, I'm not too fond of him either. He just has a very smug, unfriendly demeanor, in fact, when I see him around the office and say "hi", we will often ignore me! Talk about being professional!
Anyway, I am stuck having this guy at my wedding because him and my friend have been together for a few years and they live together. I just think it's a bit rude, but also highly amusing that he has now de-friended me on FB!
Any other bees have weird reactions/responses after invitations went out?
Thanks for letting me vent!