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I just bawled like a baby at my desk at work!!!

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    honeybun   Sept., 2010  Roanoke, VA

    I feel like I've just been kicked in the stomach. Without getting into a long story about all the reasons I hate, dread, despise my job and almost all of the people at it, the one person I really like here just told me she put in her notice today. She keeps me sane here. Everyone else, ugh, I just don't have the words. But I just don't know where I'm going to get the motivation (what little bit I had left) from now. And not only is she just a good, likeable person, she helps me in my actual job more than I could even describe. We are already so short staffed here and I already feel overwhelmed everyday. I just can't imagine how much worse it's going to get now. I'm just posting here because telling someone how I feel usually makes me feel better. Cry But she is escaping, so I am happier for her than anyone else could be I think!

     
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    HoneyBear     Texas

    Awwww oh no! I am so sorry, I know how you feel! Its hard to make friends at work.

    At least you still have us bees! Can you get on WB at work? lol

     
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    honeybun   Sept., 2010  Roanoke, VA

    I'm on here all day!!! LOL Thank goodness this site isn't blocked. Everything else is!!

     
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    HoneyBear     Texas

    haha perrrrrfect

     
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    ProudPeacockBride   September 2010  Washington

    Aww! Bummer! I work in a one man (woman!) office by myself and would LOVE to have other people around, wether I like them or not! Would give me something to look at or talk about atleast! (I've noticed having other people around you who are grumpy or stupid can really give you a good reality check. Sometimes your life doesn't seem so bad when you compare it to other people!)

    Good luck though!

     
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    honeybun   Sept., 2010  Roanoke, VA

    The people around me are evil corporate robots. You can have 'em!!!! LOL

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin   Aug 21 2010  London Ontario Canada

    That is so hard - I am so sorry!

    I hope someone new comes in that you love!

    And we will always be here to help you feel better!

     
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    ProudPeacockBride   September 2010  Washington

    Hahaha! I know I say that now, but if I were in your situation, I'd probably be just as misirable! Just think - things could be worse...you COULD be unemployed! Keep your head up! Everything happens for a reason!

     
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    Chachacha   06/18/10  Minneapolis, MN

    Oh no! Sorry to hear about that.

     
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    ProudPeacockBride   September 2010  Washington

    I have to constantly remind my fiance' to keep his chin up. He's the new guy and gets picked on. I tell him - just go to work, keep to yourself, do your job, and come home! You get paid to do your job - not be friends with people and get along with everyone!

     
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    catlady   June 26, 2010  Toronto

    Awww, sorry you're having a crummy time at work.  If it makes you feel better, I'm not a big fan of my new job AND I can't access WB =(

    I get through the day being grateful that I have a job.  My new job has me doing some mortgage work and it's depressing to see how many people can no longer afford their home.  Cheer up, maybe you'll get t know someone else now that your friend is leaving.

     
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    honeybun   Sept., 2010  Roanoke, VA

    I do try remind myself of that, especially with so many people out of work right now. And I have had a job before that was even worse than this one, so I try to remind myself of what that was like too! aaaaaaaaaaaghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!

     
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    daydreamwanderer   January 2011?  live in NE China; wedding in West Michigan

    honeybun, have you been looking for other jobs? it'd be awesome if you too could find something else!

    also, pssst, if you want to get onto other sites, try using www.vtunnel.com - it keeps me online while living in a country where half the internet doesn't exist. :)

     
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    surkim     

    Hey honeybun, I'm looking for a job... I could come be your office-buddy! :D

    Silliness aside, it stinks when the person you think is cool leaves.  :(

    Maybe someone will turn over a new leaf and become the new cool person.

     
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    His Barista   09/04/2010  Portland, OR

    Oh, no! I'm sorry! Our District Manager just transfered one of my fave coworkers with less than a days notice, so I can understand how you feel.

     
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    futuredrbraun   May 15, 2010  Indianapolis, IN

    I'm really sorry to hear that!!!! Have you considered looking for others jobs too?? It sounds really bad :(

     
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    starcharades   12/31/11  New York

    Don't worry. You won't be there forever. Concentrate on your work and your wedding and one day an opportunity will come along to steal you away. I promise.

     
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    naangel55   June 20, 2009  Long Beach, CA

    Im so sorry!  Maybe this will give you the motivation to look for another job though.  I cried at my job yesterday in front of my friend, 2 of my bosses and my general manager because they told me because we arent meeting our numbers that I have to move locations to a place I dont like.  Its only across the street but its a completely different environment and job all together.  I work with social/corporate markets now and there I will be doing convention services mainly.  Heres hoping I like it better than I think I will.

     
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    SweetheartDealer   08.07.10  Los Angeles, CA

    I'm losing my only work pal too, at the beginning of December. He is going on paternity leave (probably for good) and I am thrilled for him but I am also surrounded by evil corporate robots... so I know how you feel. We'll get through it somehow but big bummer for us!! :( I can't do weddingbee at work either :(

     
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    honeybun   Sept., 2010  Roanoke, VA

    I've actually been thinking about going to nursing school...which is so never ever ever something I wanted to do. I majored in journalism, used to work in tv news and am now in marketing. But through lots of experiences at the hospital i work at, I'm really thinking I would like to do that now. And actually help people and do something important. Instead of stress myself to death over stupid sh*t like an ad in the paper or a billboard. ugh. Just seems impossible though!!!! Today's events are a good kick in the butt to motivate me though!

     
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    bellenga   Next Summer..2010! Can't wait!  North of Atlanta, Georgia

    Hugs to you honeybun!  We're in this together!

    I'm in healthcare.

    We have nutjobs here too.

     
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    KMSull     Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    *hugs* I feel you on the "hating your job" part... I hate mine it hurts sometimes, and I cry at work at least once every two weeks. I don't get paid enough for therapy. Keep your chin up and chocolate in the desk drawer!

     
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    allisonc   10/09/2010  Boston, MA, wedding in Middletown, CT

    hang in there honeybun! I have been there - I had a coworker that made me cry at least once a week (@bellenga - what is it with healthcare and nutjobs? lol) and then my office friends started migrating out one by one. This was a great motivator - I went to grad school to get away from her, and while I'm still in the same office, I've moved up, and she's long gone :) There were times when I thought that things were NEVER going to change, that I'd never move on from my entry-level job and that this woman would torment me til retirement. Stay strong! Hang in there!! You are probably sick of people telling you that it will 'work out' - I know I was - but in the end...something usually does. Till then you can come here to vent :)

     
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    brattkatt22   06/05/2010  Boston, Ma

    i can't say i hate my job , but i don't think this is what i want to do or am suppose to do with my life ..some pple are good here, but most are vindictive , nosey pple ...i have maybe 2 REALLY good friends here..and when 1 of them went on maternity leave , i was sooooo sad....and wished to god i could leave too..lol..I'm constantly wondering when there going to fire me ..which would be my blessin in disguise:) .Hell i even joke about it :) If they have me ..they'll take anyone ..lol...

    Maybe this is a sign for u to go out and really try getting another position maybe in the same bldg, diff dept ...Things happen for a reason ..We'll be here for you in the meantime :)

     
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    KatieBug3017   May 30, 2010  Clearwater, FL

    I know how you feel! Last year, I was in your shoes, but fortunately for me, I was the one turning in the notice! I was not in a happy place, and it was stressing me out/making me unhappy. Once I realized that my situation wasn't healthy, it gave me the motivation to look for my next endeavor...perhaps you can get some inspiration as well! Good luck...and keep your chin up! :)

     

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