- 3 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
Hi Bee’s –
I had written last week about how the home buying process is really bringing the worst out of FI and I. You can read about it here http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/the-home-buying-process-is-bringing-out-the-worst-in-us-vent#axzz2XAJT72hz
We WERE suppose to close tomorrow, but I don’t think there’s a chance in hell that’s going to happen.
So basically, I have been doing ALL the work on my own. After my last post, I suggested that FI go see his on again off again therapist, which he agreed to discuss what’s going on. His therapist actually told him that I was 100% right, and that he is treating me like i’m his mother expecting me to do everything on my own. He promised to work on it, but explained that it’s not going to happen overnight which his therapist confirmed.
Well, this morning I waited patiently for FI to call the loan office without me asking, but that didn’t happen. I finally called at lunchtime and it took me two hours to get through to them. Once I did I was shocked that there were so many forms that they needed from us. This loan officer was out sick and I spoke with the loan processer. I was horrified. There was no chance we were going to close tomorrow. I called the supervisors, supervisor who couldn’t explain what was going on, just that they should not have waited until today to tell me this.
I started to fall apart, I just couldn’t handle the stress. The only form that needs to be turned in that is deterimental is the tax transcipt form. Apparently FI signed the wrong line and no one bothered to inform us until today. Because of this we would have to wait for the IRS to send those docs to our bank.
I called FI and LOST IT. I CRIED AND CRIED AND CRIED. I called him a 5 year child, I told him it wasn’t fair that I am doing this alone, and I told him I don’t give a damn about the house anymore.
I am an emotional wreck and I really don’t know if I want this house anymore. I am thinking about taking a day off tomorrow to my mental health in check.
As always, thanks for letting me vent.