I just don't care anymore

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
603 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Blasebride:  I haven’t personally but I know of plenty of bees that do. Just remember soon it will be over and you will be far away for awhile which by the sounds of things would be nice.

Post # 4
Member
494 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Blasebride:  I’m so sorry for what you’re going through and can see why you would feel ‘over it’. Just keep your head up and that perma-smile on. FMIL demands that you invite her son’s GF to get ready for you? Grit your teeth, smile, say ‘Oh, I thought I told you, wedding party only’ and go about your day. She throws a fit that her sister’s friend’s mother can’t come to the rehearsal dinner? Smile, say ‘we don’t have room because it’s wedding party only, but maybe you could suggest a restaurant to them’. Heck, tell her to throw a separate dinner party for them so you can enjoy yours without her!

Just remember that the wedding is about you and your wonderful FI. And that soon enough you’ll be far away and won’t have to deal with any of the crazy for a while!

Post # 5
Member
2116 posts
Buzzing bee

aww i am so sorry your in this situation. As for the moving situation, how about telling your FI to specifically do things. It will atleast take some pressure off by telling him what and how to do it. “I need you to call X and get Y organized and packed before this date”

anyways, I agree you should have done what you wanted but we all cave! we all do something in weddings to cater to someone else, which is really unfortunate. All we can do is learn. Now you know in the future that his family is going to be unhappy either way so eff it and do it your way! His Mom sounds like an absolute B, but look at the bright side that you will be away from them soon!! And maybe you guys might enjoy the time away and decided to move somehwere else after the year is up. Just try to ignore them and let it roll off your back. Easier said than done :/

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