Post # 1
Yeah. I just had a coworker come up to me, look at a picture of my FI and I on my computer, and go, "oh, honey, you could have done much better!" and this person KNOWS i’m getting married in 6 weeks. He came by specifically to ask how things were going.
Granted, it is not THE most photogenic picture of him, but my FI is not an unattractive guy by any means!
Ugh, the nerve. I just wanted to complain because it pisses me off and put me in a bad mood 1.5 hours before I leave on a plane to go see him. The audacity of some people!
Post # 3
I’d say…I could have done worse (if the offender is male)…I could have married YOU!
Post # 4
WOW. I am irate for you! How could someone be so RUDE??? You handled it much better than I would have…that guy would have gotten what is coming to him! Don’t let him get to you…and TGIF! 🙂
Post # 5
Now that sucks doesn’t it. Well maybe your co-worker has a thing for you?! Seriously though there are plenty of people who really don’t have anything nice to say.
Brush it off and ignore him! You will be married to the man of your dreams in just a few weeks!
Post # 6
I say, forget the ignorant people in the world and enjoy the rest of your day and your weekend!! Woo Hoo, you’re getting on a plane to go see the love of your life, that’s all that matters!!!! People like that are usually jealous that they don’t have that something special in their life and only want to bring others down. DON"T LET IT!!!!! Ignore him and have fun!!!!
Post # 7
Wow, that was really tasteless and just plain rude on the part of the person who said that to you! Even if it was meant to be a joke it’s a very bad one and if they were being serious that’s even worse. I’m so sorry someone was so rude to you.
I’ve come to realize lately that there are way too many people out there who just seem to have no filter what-so-ever. They just say whatever and don’t even realize that it might just be hurtful. I liken it to one of those cars with the catalytic converter removed and a huge coffee can exhaust pipe!
Post # 8
Hmm, what does FI stand for? I’m thinking future husband, but that’s fh…
And for the record, the guy who said that is a jerk and probably has a thing for you. Or it could be that he just was upset about something and didn’t watch what he was saying closely enough.
Either way, not worth wasting your time on. And just so you know, I totally would have reacted in the same manner.
Post # 9
I love bellenga’s response!!!
I’m newly engaged and it’s beyond me, the tactless things that people say/ask. I can’t even imagine why someone would think it’s OK to say that to someone else but try not to let it ruin your weekend. Whenever someone says something that rubs me the wrong way, I just figure they’re either jealous, or incredibly socially awkward, and either way, I am better off not letting that type of negative energy get to me
Post # 10
Well, my coworker is a man in his 40’s who’s been married 4 or 5 times. Very short, as in like, 5 feet tall. With all white hair. He looks like the mad hatter from Alice in Wonderland.
Again, I was so shocked I literally went, "uhhh, gee that was nice of you" in a really sarcastic tone and he made a joke about, "well, look what my wife has to put up with". He makes a lot of inappropriate comments in general.
Bellenga, can you just live in my ear and tell me what to say?
I just can’t believe somebody would actually say that TO MY FACE. Does this mean I’m *so* attractive I should date Brad Pitt’s younger twin? haha.
Post # 11
aw, I think he’s just sour grapes, dont worry about it and let people bring you down; some people get jealous of other people’s happiness or successes and want to pull them down
Post # 12
Just for perspective…here is the picture of my FI and I on my computer that my coworker saw and here’s a more normal looking pic of him. Whereas i look really stupid in this picture with my butt sticking out and my out-of-place smile, lol
How is he NOT attractive?! Seriously. Dumb coworker.
Post # 13
Jeez. I’d would have had a hard time keeping my mouth shut. I think you guys make a cute couple.
Post # 14
What a jerk! Well, I suppose you could take it as a compliment that you are gorgeous!!
PS – nothing wrong with short guys – my FI is only 5’6!
PPS – to whoever was asking "FI" – short for fiance.
Post # 15
That’s a great picture! You two are both good looking. My mind is coming up with dirty things to say, but dirty or not, there are more than looks that make you fall in love!
Post # 16
- Wedding: August 2018 - Oakland Manor
You guys are a cute couple and your co worker is a butthead. Yuck to him.