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I lost our baby today.
I just got back from the ER. After starting to bleed tonight, I went to the ER, mainly just to confirm the m/c. They did a beta and I had dropped to an hcg of 3. I've had heavy cramping and a lot of bleeding since.
To see "pregnant" on that digital test was the best feeling in the world to me. Honestly, probably higher than the feeling of saying my vows to my wonderful husband. I thought my life was complete.
To have it ripped from me is more than I ever thought I could take. I am just...beyond devastated. I honestly want to just die right now. I am so mad at my body for failing our baby. I am so mad that I waited as long as I did, just to lose it all.
I'm probably going to take some time to myself to heal. This has been the hardest thing that I've ever had to deal with. I honestly don't know how I will actually come to terms with it.
My husbnd and I are both beside ourselves.
Oh honey. I'm so sorry. I don't even know what to say. I'm just so so so so so sorry. ((((((hugs)))))))
((HUGS)) I am so sorry hun. Wish there was more I could say, but I will keep you in our thoughts.
Oh, honey. I'm so sorry. I know this has to be impossibly sad for you, and I'm so sorry that you and your husband have to go through this. I wish there were something that we could do to help ease your hurting hearts.
That being said, please don't despair. This wasn't your fault. And this isn't the end of the line for you. One day, after you've taken the right amount of time to grieve your loss, there will be time for other babies. They won't replace this one - the one that made you feel so happy to be a mom for the first time - but you'll have them. I'm glad that you and your husband have each other to lean on. Support each other in this time, and you'll come through it.
No. No no no no no. Honey, I am so heartbroken for you. I am so, so sorry. There are no words that can make this better. It is an unfair, terrible, soul-shattering thing. You know where I am if you need to talk about it. Take all the time in the world that you need to heal. We love you! *hugs*
I'm so sorry, jholler! This recently happened to my sister, and I think I never understood how devastating miscarriages are until we lost Baby Bean. Don't hesitate to talk about it to the supportive people in your life, they love you and even if they don't understand your pain, they want to help you heal. :(
I'm so, so sorry again :(.
I'm so so sorry to hear that, I will be praying for you and your husband. =[
I am so so so sorry for you and your husband...I have no words for your loss. You guys are in my thoughts....(((hugs)))
I really can't believe it and I'm so so sorry. Take all the time you need, but know that we are here.
Aww I am soooooooooooo sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and your DH. Please know that all of us on the bee are here for you. Hugs!
Words can't even begin to tell you how sorry I am. My heart breaks for you and you will be in my thoughts as you grieve. Take all the time you need to heal and know that you have the thoughts of a lot of bees here. {hugs}
I'm so very sorry to hear this jholler. Although I've had this happen to a couple close friends, I can't imagine what you are going through. Lean on your hubby, family, and friends for support. You will get through this. xo
@jholler25: oh honey, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.
I am so so sorry for your loss. Any time a little one is lost, no matter how, it is beyond devastating. If I may- my best friend has had 3 m/c's, and one thing that helped- in a small way- was to light a candle for the baby, and let it burn all the way. I don't know if you would be interested in somthing like this, I just don't know what else to say. My thoughts are with you and your husband.
Ugh, I'm so sorry, sweetie. :( Sending you all the cyber hugs I can give.
I'm SO sorry. It's the absolute worst feeling in the world. There are no words that could possibly make this even close to better. We're here when you need us. Love you!!!
Oh my dear, I'm so sorry. My own two miscarriages (many years ago) were hard to reconcile and still bring sorrow for what could have been. I know that there is nothing you could have done to prevent it., and your body did not fail your baby. My doctor told me that 20% of all conceptions end in miscarriage, but in many cases, the women don't even know.
Please take some time to nurture yourself and your husband as you grieve together. In many cases, the husband is left out and that can add to the loss. I wish you a healthy recovery and healing. When you are feeling beyond your abiliy to cope, please know there are many of us who wish to send you the warmth of hugs and comfort.
I'm so sorry for you both! There aren't any words to express how sad I am for you guys. Hugs and know you are in my prayers.
I am sorry chicky. I know how it feels to be in your shoes. It is horrible and frustrating. Take as much time as you need. Try to keep your chin up.
I am so sorry. I've been there before, and it is terrible. PM me if you need to vent.
I am so so sorry. I cannot even imagine what you are feeling right now but I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
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