(Closed) I just need to rant

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
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  • Post # 3
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    242 posts
    Helper bee

    Sorry you are going through all this uncertainty and not knowing. Have you had a discussion on if he wants to get married and when. Does he know how you feel about this? If you haven’t had this discussion I would strongly recommend it so you have more info on where he stands. Hugs

    Post # 4
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    85 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I agree…how much have you guys talked about it? Me and FI talked about marriage plans/as if we were going ot get married for ages, to the point that I knew it was just a matter of time until he proposed.  Seems like talking about it a lot kept us on the same page as far as being “ready”.

    Post # 5
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    1404 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    @trirunner56:  If you need a timeline for reassurance and to stop the feelings of uncertainty, then ask him for one. Tell him that it’s been more than 2 years and while you’re not wanting to pressure him into proposing, you do need to know if (and preferably when) he plans on doing it. Otherwise you’ll continue to wonder and may be waiting around for something that never comes.

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