(Closed) I just need to vent… broken heart.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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501 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I don’t really know what you can do exept just be there for him. I would try to be positive and just give him a shoulder to cry on. Poor guy. Hopefully he will not lose his job. Just know that you both will get through it. Stick together, tough it out, and you guys will have a stronger relationship because of it.If he wants to pop the question, he will. Just be patient bc you don’t know what will happen with the job.

Good luck to you both and stay positive. 

Post # 4
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5663 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

So he hasn’t lost his job yet and hopefully was not involved in any of the messed up stuff? I think you are borrowing trouble, don’t stress yourself out over something that hasn’t happened. Just pray/cross your fingers/whatever you do and it will work out the way it’s supposed to! If he DOES get fired.. THEN you can worry

Post # 5
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5894 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

If he gets fired, can he get unemployment benefits? Also, he is under so much stress, let him know that the engagement doesn’t have to happen as soon as you would have liked. Give him some breathing room.

Good Luck!

Post # 6
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748 posts
Busy bee

I’m sorry about this. The best you can do is just be there, strong and supportive and sweet for him. Let him vent and let him take his time alone when he needs it. If the shit ever does hit the fan, try to just be supportive next to him. hugs! Be strong, he may be fine after all! He just needs to make sure he does not fall out of his big boss’s grace at all and he should be fine.

Post # 11
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379 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I can definitely relate and feel awful for you. But you don’t know if he’s a part of the trouble yet or if he’ll lose his job. Try to stay positive and make sure you communicate about what’s going on! He’s lucky to have you by his side 🙂 And you can tell him that as a fellow Mustang driver/lover, I’m thinking good thoughts for you both!

Post # 12
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2981 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Oh goodness. If “white collar shit” means what I think it means, then hopefully he gets by with a slap on the wrist instead of a pink slip. If it’s something he’s knowingly been doing that’s bad or unethical then that’s a different story. But hopefully it’s not something that can get him fired over! All you can do is be there for him, and support him unconditionally. Things always work themselves out somehow.

Post # 15
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2299 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@embanes21:  I’m so sorry:( I can only imagine how stressful this is for you guys. I hope that everything turns out ok. *Hugs*

Post # 16
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97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@embanes21:  Just a thought that you might not want to post something on the Internet, implications your boyfriend in a criime, right next to your avatar which I assume is the picture of you two?

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