I just wanna elope!

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
42 posts
Newbee

ME TOO!!! 

We aren’t really planning the wedding yet. I am gathering ideas and finding resources waiting for the actual proposal.

I absolutely want to just elope and I let my SO know at least once a week. I don’t care about having a formal wedding, but SO won’t even consider it. 

Unfortunately I have no advice

Post # 4
Member
213 posts
Helper bee

@MrsToBeeMgn:  About a year ago, a mutual friend of SO and I asked him if we were ever going to get married and he said he wanted to marry me,  but we couldn’t afford a big wedding….this, after I had told him on numerous occasions that I wanted a small wedding…so he lets everyone believe I want a big wedding. It turned out that HE wanted a big wedding (he has a big family). So even now, when (hopefully) a proposal is coming soon, I try to reason with him over cost, but he wants all his billions of cousins he hasn’t seen in decades to be there. I sort of understand, but it’s frustrating.

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