(Closed) “I just want to marry you” (mini-vent)

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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609 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Mine does! Especially every time I stress out or fuss about him not being very involved in the planning process! And its driving me nuts.. Its great that he wants to marry me but I’m getting so frustrated with him during the planning its ruining the excitement! (Sorry I’m so frustrated with him today!)..

Post # 4
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274 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I am actually the one who asks him everyday if he’s willing to walk away from all of it.  Let’s just accept losing our deposits, walk away from the stress and go elope.

Oh and I must add…he is VERY involved in the planning.  Since he is the one who wants the big ol wedding, due from him on Feb 28th are contracts for cake, DJ and tuxes. 

Post # 5
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3222 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Every. single. day.

One day I blew up at him and told him to stop saying that, and he stopped. For like a week.

He always says ‘lets just go to the courthouse…’

GAH!

Post # 7
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785 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’ve actually never heard mine say that.  I think he wants this to be a kick-a$$ party as much as I do 🙂  So he’s willing to help on the big stuff.  Little details, though, a lot of the time he’ll just say he has no preference.

I think using the “I just want to marry you” when you’re stressed about details is just their way of saying “I don’t care” and being unhelpful. They just think that by saying it like that they will both get out of doing whatever it is you want them to help you with and also that you will think its sweet.

Post # 8
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756 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

My FI and I both say “I just want to get married” every time we run into an issue with the planning. Neither of us really wanted to have a whole wedding; we were all set for city hall and were somehow talked into the bigger wedding by our parents. I know our wedding will be an amazing day, but sometimes I wonder if it’s worth all the stress it has caused us.

Post # 9
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2829 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

We both say this.

It helps us keep our heads when we’re stressing, because as awesome as all the little things may be, the one thing that matters is that we’ll be family 🙂 

Post # 10
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5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@iRun2004: All. the.freakin’.time.

It’s so annoying/sweet at the same time. Grrrrr!

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