(Closed) I keep hearing it is inappropriate to wear pants to a summer wedding. Yes or no

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
9552 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I think it is certainly more traditional for women to wear skirts/dresses but I think pants are fine, as long as they are nice pants.

Post # 4
9627 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MrsFuzzyFace:  How formal will the wedding be?  And what is the venue?

I’ve never worn pants to a wedding but I don’t think it’s necessarily faux pas to do so.  Fabric, style, cut, color, etc., also make a huge difference in how dressy an outfit looks; for a wedding people usually dress up. 

Post # 5
1114 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I say wear what you like!  Providing it’s appropriate in terms of formality, I don’t think anyone will pay the blindest bit of notice.  Especially if you’re not someone who wears skirts or dresses in everyday life.  Perhaps going for a lighter colour might appease the naysayers?

Post # 6
4512 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

It’s totally acceptable, IMO. It just has to fit the event’s dress code. There are many pants out there that are more formal than your average summer dress. 

I went to a wedding recently (in summer!) where a female guest was wearing a 3-piece pant suit. She looked awesome. 

Post # 8
9627 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MrsFuzzyFace:  I think your outfit idea sounds fine.  😉

Post # 9
10288 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

We had a formal wedding and quite a few of our female guests wore dress pants. I don’t know if season has anything to do with it (we were married in early fall but it was unseasonably warm) but I was far from offended by their wardrobe choice. Dress ’em up with a nice top and it’ll be fine. 

Post # 10
2104 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Far more appropriate than the booty shorts I saw at a wedding I attended a few weeks ago.  With an nice blouse, I’m sure it’ll be fine!

Post # 11
7349 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Sounds totally fine!

Post # 12
1274 posts
Bumble bee

I think it’s acceptable. I’ve worn pants to one wedding, it was early fall (read still sweltering hot in Toronto) and wore a really pretty top with it and a little jacket and heels. I felt weird at first wearing pants, but I looked good and the outfit was formal enough for the event. 

I think for a summer wedding and especially a more casual one as you described, you can totally rock it too. Post pics of the outfit and we can tell you for sure if you want 🙂 

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