- 6 years ago
So ladies…seeing as this is the waiting board, its nothing new for someone to post about her “waiting time”…
I am a little frustrated with my situation currently. I know my Boyfriend or Best Friend bought the ring a week ago (He doesnt know I know) but I figured it out. The things he did en said that day convinced me he’s got the ring.
Even now, every day he would take my ringfinger and say something like “not too long anymore” or “soon this finger is going to look even prettier…” and all of this is awesome and its exciting. Its just so diffcult for me to be patient.
He wants to ask my parents blessing first…which I really also want him to do. But they live quite a stretch away from where we live…so we will have to fly up to ask their blessing, but we are only able to fly up end July/beginning August. Knowing he’s got the ring is absolute TORTURE!!!!!
He said that flying up to ask their blessing is the only thing that is standing between us & the official proposal. He wont phone them and ask their blessing over the phone, he wants to do it properly.
Also: he constantly tells me how he hopes that the proposal goes according to plan and that it’ll be quite a mission to pull it off but if he does then its gonna be amazing…ALL OF THIS IS TORTURE!!
Am I being selfish feeling this way? I dont want to be engaged to get the ring…I really want to be engaged to know we are moving towards getting married. We are not planning on being engaged for more than 7/8 months. We just want enought time to plan the wedding…
I dont want to pressure him at all, so im not bringing up the ring or engagement…he does bring it up all the time though. And I dont want to become the emotional, crying to her Boyfriend or Best Friend girl because I want him to do it when he feels like the time is right.
Its just very very difficult for me and I need advice on how I can keep my mind off it.
**SO sorry for the long post…I just need a little encouragement from fellow waiting ladies