- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
Okay so like most guys my FI does not care that much about all the liitle details that I am constantly asking him about. Obviously this means I am doing most of the DIY work, which I don’t really care about. He rarey shows excitment about the wedding details (totally a guy thing). I mean I know he is excited to marry me and to be my husband, but he does not care how it happens as long as it happens.
Anyway, our invites went out last week and we have already started getting RSVPs back. He gets home before I do, so he gets the mail 1st. If there are RSVPs in the mail, he opens them and then texts me how many we got that day. As first I was annoyed. I spent countless hours cutting, gluing, addessing and designing those suckers and now he get the fun part of opening the RSVPs. Then I realized that he is showing his excitment about the wedding. He usually takes days to open fun mail (birthday cards, christmas cards, magazines…it does not matter). The fact that the first thing he does is open the RSVPs is how I know he is excited about the whole thing.
So the secret of his that I know is…..HE REALLY DOES CARE AND IS TRUELY EXCITED.