(Closed) I know I shouldn’t be antsy, but I am!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
124 posts
Blushing bee

Sending you some happy waiting vibes – you’re so near the big event, just sit tight the last wee while.

All of this will seem insignificant once your engaged (or so I’m told!)

Post # 5
1512 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Same boat, but I’m not too antsy. We’ve picked the ring, and he’s made two payments; it should only take three to pay it off. I know I have to wait at least two more weeks, but I still find myself wondering if he’ll try to get it sooner, if it’ll take longer to pay, and how soon he’ll propose after getting it. I guess I’m not too antsy since I have a little bit more of a timeline, but I still want it to happen! It’s so close I can almost taste it…

Post # 6
1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Oooh, have you got any special dates planned on the near horizen?

Post # 7
306 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I know how you feel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I NEVER thought my SO would have his act together so quickly!

But 2 nights ago, we were window shopping and he told the sales lady he’d be back in 2 weeks to pay cash for the ring. He also put down a deposit. 2 weeks is march 29th. another week to set/resize? plus my birthday is april 30th…

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! The anticipation is KILLING me. but I dare not say ANYTHING to him about it at this point!

Just keep it to yourself and the hive! and post pics of that ring when you get it!!!!!


Post # 9
316 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

You’re almost there, hold on a little more =). And I think it’s better not to have special dates planned, so there’s not the extra anxiety and pressure surrounding them (in case he has something else planned). I’m in a similar boat as you, I know he has the ring and it will happen soon, but since there’s only a few days he could do it’s even harder to not get my hopes up more than I should.

Take comfort in the fact he’s taking these huge steps… and there’s no way he’s changed his mind!

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