Post # 1
But please forgive me; cause I will miss you guys so so much. I was dealt with some pretty bad career news today. I didn’t lose my job but lost out on an opportunity that was tangential to but pretty damn important to my career progression. As a result, all of Fiance and my timelines have been all discombobulated. It also throws major shade on the wedding and we may be deciding to something to something just the two of us after all this year (after I went back and forth about it 8,000 times, haha).
All of this has made me pretty angry/sad that we wont have the wedding and I really dont need to stick around here as much :(. Something had to give
I love and will miss my internet buddies soooo much. You guys are so cool and supportive. I mean how can I not miss pot roast lady and Mr. Tattoo having to deal with triflin hos and Mr. Bee correcting my spelling.
I know good bye posts are lame as hell but I guess I underestimated my ego, haha. Anyway, will miss the Bee and I will have to pop in a see all the 2011 weddings!!
Post # 3
@Aubergold: Awww so sad to see you go! I hope things look up for you soon! Come back and visit, we’ll miss you!!!
Post # 4
@Aubergold: Sad to see you go. Hopefully you will come back soon. I hope that everything works out for you and that you will get another career opportunity that is even better.
ETA: No, you are not a triflin ho for writing this good bye post. lol
Post # 5
i don’t care if you run off in the middle of the night and get married by a homeless man in the middle of the street, please come back and give us a recap!
Post # 6
@Aubergold: Goodbye posts are better than just disappearing! Sorry your timelines have gotten screwed up. I hope things work out for you both career-wise and wedding-wise. If you do end up doing something with just the two of you, still come back and post about it!
Post # 7
@Aubergold: Aww!! I’m really sad to see you go! I know I look like I just started on here but I was under a different name until recently so I’ve been following a lot of what you posted and your comments!! You will be very missed! Please stop in and visit!!
Post # 8
@Aubergold: 🙁 Don’t leave!!! Even if you just have something with you and your Fiance, it still needs planned! Even if it’s just $100!!! Plus, you can still give advice and comment about triflin ho’s!!! The AA boards will miss you!!!! Keep in touch, okay?
Post # 10
You will be greatly missed! I’ve always enjoyed reading your posts, and I hope to see you back on here soon. This is so much more than just a wedding site, and if you guys do elope (which is an awesome idea, too) there’s no reason you have to leave. Good luck! *hugs*
Post # 11
@Aubergold: Maybe you can take a break instead? I know when mother nature threw the ultimate monkey wrench in my Jamaican wedding extravaganza the LAST thing I wanted to hear/read about was how other bees weddings were going off without a hitch, and how wonderful and fabulous life was for them and their plans. I posted less and took some time to come to terms with everything and I ended up getting right back in the swing of things. My wedding will definitely be different than originally planned…and it took me a LONG time to come to terms with that…but eventually I did.
Even if it’s just a trip to the Justice of the Peace with dinner afterwards, I would still like to hear how things went. Pop in from time to time to say hello. Good luck with everything and I will definitely be rooting for you.
Post # 13
You guys are too sweet! Makes it hard for a girl to leave. I will miss you. And yes I will definitely check in from time to time!
Post # 14
:'( who is gonna call out the trifflin hos now?! 🙁 or do flava flav impressions?
Post # 15
Don’t leave! 🙁
I just got here a few months ago, but I love your posts! And you’re a fellow black Catholic bee, too. 🙂
Ok, I understand, but also this was probably a highly emotional day so don’t make any rash decisions. Hopefully you will still feel that this community is valuable to you. Just take some time and reconsider. Hugs!
Post # 16
I think you’re a cool doll. Even though I don’t know you personally, I enjoyed your posts. Good luck to you and your husband, and best wishes for your job situation. I’m in MD (just a stones throw from DC) so, PM me if you want to holla at a sista’…later babes!!