I know my Girl will say yes

posted 3 years ago in Proposals
  • poll: Why am i not proposing?
    I enjoy making her suffer : (5 votes)
    5 %
    scared : (77 votes)
    77 %
    shy : (9 votes)
    9 %
    sleeping with one girl for the rest of my life : (9 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    8425 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @GamerGuy:  No idea lol.  Same thing happened to my guy though, we even picked out the ring together and everything.  I just told him to relax and treat it like the first time we met in zangarmarsh, we both got a good laugh out of it though.

    Post # 4
    Member
    805 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    are you worried about how you will do it? its such a grand gesture, if i was a guy id be scared too.

    Post # 6
    Member
    809 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    mine was just worried he wasn’t where he wanted to be in his life, he wanted to be able to get me everything I wanted before he proposed, even though all I wanted was him!

    Post # 9
    Member
    11300 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @housebee:  LOL

    OP, you’ll be fine! My FI was nervous as hell when he picked up the ring. He had this big plan to get a photographer and take me ice skating and propose to me there, but it was so warm last winter that we never got the chance. The day he picked up the ring, he was like, screw it, I need to do this NOW. It was really sweet.

    Post # 10
    Member
    3222 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    @GamerGuy:  you’re not alone. My partner and I have been together for 9 years and have lived together for a long time. We purchased the ring (and I’m already wearing it!), he asked my parents for their blessing, and then told me that proposing “takes a lot of guts.” WHAAAAT?! If you know she’ll say yes because you’ve talked openly and candidly about your future, then don’t be nervous!

    Post # 11
    Member
    8425 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @GamerGuy:  Oh I’m sure a bunch of bees here would love to see a pic of the ring.  Even the simplest of proposals can be the most endearing memory.  I think it’s more about putting the thought and consideration into your proposal, rather than making a big show out of it.  Does your girl game?  This was the cutest pic of a gamer proposal (girl proposed to guy I think).

    Post # 12
    Member
    1634 posts
    Bumble bee

    @GamerGuy:  I think every guy I know has felt like that! I don’t know what it is about it, maybe because everyone makes such a big deal out of the actual proposal and not whats behind it that gets people all nervous. I had a friend who thought she was getting dumped when her hubby proposed he was so nervous and sweaty! Lol

    Post # 13
    Member
    3598 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    I couldn’t tell you.  My wedding was already planned by the time DH officially proposed, and the poor guy was still terrified when he did it.  

    Post # 14
    Member
    3514 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    @GamerGuy:  Awww first of all let me say I think your girl is extra special if you are actually reaching out to us bees to make sure the proposal process is prefect! I know must men feel the pressure of how their going to ask, esp. since that’s the first thing everyone asks (besides asking to see the ring), “How did he ask?” But I’m positive all she wants is to spend the rest of her life with you. You can do this! Good luck.

    Post # 16
    Member
    6525 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    alllll guys have a little fear of rejection even when they know the answer. Its the “holy crap..this is it. this is the rest of my life.” Its a big deal. But it will be so worth it when you see the expression on her face and how happy you have made her.

    When my fiance proposed he turned white as a ghost, I immediately started crying, he got down on one knee and asked me and I was just crying and crying and he was like..babe..is this a yes? He needed to hear the word “yes” come out of my mouth LoL. There is more to the proposal, but just a lil story-its not just you!

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